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Dealing with Delayed/Retarded Ejaculation in mate

By March 27, 2011 - 11:21pm

How many women out there have had to deal with this sometimes "hidden" issue? How sexually demoralizing it can be. How we can sometimes get blammed for the situation.
How do you handle it? Have you learned any tricks to make it easier for him to let loose and come?
How does it affect YOU?

How long have you stayed in this rlationship? Are you happy in spite of it?

By June 5, 2011 - 10:01pm

Hello ladies, I myself have a story of my own. My partner has a hard time ejaculating inside of me, which most of the time I don't let bother me but deep down inside it really does. This all started almost 5 years ago. Since the birth of our son he has only ejaculated inside of me 5 times. The first time was almost 3 years after our son was born. To this day he still does not. He said that im just not tight enough or something. that he can not get himself to that "bursting point" he said it feels great and all but he just can't seem to cum. I have used exercises to tighten the muscles inside and I have used creams that are supposed to tighten you. I have used benwa balls or however your spell it. I'm at a loss. I hurts me in a way. I know that I have tightened up inside. Even my doctor has told me this as I have raised this issue to him. I just don't know what to do. Myself personally it has put a huge dent in our relationship. Sex is not everything i know, but it does play a big part in a relationship. I have almost left him on several occasions for that reason alone. It's not easy to deal with. I feel like it's me and he is just not that excited by me.

June 5, 2011 - 10:01pm
By May 22, 2011 - 10:50am

Hi Beli,
Would you mind sharing your story, as it may help kick-start the conversation (and allow other women to feel comfortable sharing), since this is such a taboo-topic (as is any sex-topic, unfortunately).

If you are open to sharing, or would prefer answering the question: "Why I started this group", that would be helpful to provide some guidance as a group Leader! I look forward to hearing from you soon!

May 22, 2011 - 10:50am

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