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By May 15, 2011 - 9:32pm

I really don't know anything to do. I don;t have many friends, because of my health. I'm on oxygen 24/7 and I think mens are afraid to talk to me. I was in a long relationship with a guy, but found out he was cheating on me. Then, I don't know could I trust a man. Right now, I go in one day out of the week to talk to someone, about my pain, feeling and loneness. Sometime, I feel so alone. I have two girls their ages are 24 and 20, both are at home with me. We all spend time with each other, but it would be nice if I had a companion in my life.

By HERWriter Guide September 17, 2011 - 6:14am

Hi again 1breeathamin

Thanks for your reply. If you ever seriously comtemplate suicide, please call the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or contact them here: http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

Suicide solves nothing and leaves behind utter devastation.

As well as your suicide not helping them finanically, remember that it would devastate them emotionally and they would much rather have you than a check in the mail.

There are far better reasons to live than an insurance policy.

Have you started going to church yet? Remember they have support groups and counseling for free or a very low cost. I think it's really important that you receive some kind of counseling.

Tell me what you think!

September 17, 2011 - 6:14am
By September 10, 2011 - 1:17am

I have tried dating sites and haven't had any luck at all. I plan on going to church, but not for looking a man. I have so much going in my life that know one can help me with at all. I have truly fell, I can't help my daughters with anything financial, because I don't have anything. I just receive social security each month and it goes all to bills, food and rent. I'm broke every month after I pay everything. I'm not able to even go away for a weekend. Sometime, I wonder why I'm I here. I have taught about taking my life, but I can't because of the insurance policy. If, I take my own life, they would receive nothing and I wouldn't want that to happen. But. I know one day, it will happen.

September 10, 2011 - 1:17am
By HERWriter Guide September 5, 2011 - 4:37pm

Hi breathamin

I'm sorry we haven't contacted you in so long!

If you are religiously inclined, church is a good place to meet people and church socials often have singles nights.

Also, have you considered dating sites? I know it seems really intimidating but many people really do find someone special that way!

I know being on O2 is difficult but doing gentle volunteer work is a great way to help others, meet others and boost your self-esteem.

Let me know how you are these days!

September 5, 2011 - 4:37pm

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