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my husband is a hoe!

By January 7, 2015 - 5:24am

Hi, I am new to this but, I am a very private person and I need some support dealing with a husband I have been loyal to for 20 years... he was the love of my life. He was my first and only man that I been with. I found out a year ago that he had a second cell phone and had been cheating on me for the whole 20 years.. .. i could have died and inside I did. It has been hell after the deception. I don't trust him, respect him and half way love him but, I have no where else to go and not enough finance to leave with my two small kids.... I'm just so sad.....he brought home herpes but, I don't have it!!!! We have sex with a condom, I can't go nowhere without him...i feel stuck and alone... crying all day and night.... he had pics of nasty naked hoes on his phone, he was paying for sex from hoes he meet online... he talked abut me behind my back.....im just done....lost for words... he also had pics of his Dick on the his phone. .. i just couldn't believe it!!! But, he won't send them to me....

By January 7, 2015 - 10:12am

Thanks for your support! God knows I need it! On new years day we got into it because I wanted to go with 2 friends and have a drink and all hell broke loose. He said this is why he don't want to be here....it's just so much to deal with....so much!

January 7, 2015 - 10:12am
By January 7, 2015 - 9:38am

I'm so sorry...To be honest,the title is understated for your husband, he even exceeds a hoe.

First of all I think you must confront your husband. You need to do it,he must take responsibility for deceiving you and your love. You shouldn't just take it yourself. I know its difficult, but he needs a reality check. After you've confronted him,just leave him,like leave him. You could figure out the rest,but you should never stay with a man who doesn't even respect you,your relationship and your love.

I'm no expert at this but you need to stand up for yourself and all those years that you've dedicated to him.

I hope you do what's best for you.

January 7, 2015 - 9:38am

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