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Men Masturbation

By July 11, 2014 - 5:33am

I've been dating this guy for over a year now. I just resent found out that he masturbates in bed. At first I didn't say anything because I felt embrassed. Now this is starting to annoy me because he does it everyday for hours and even after sex. I finally asked him about this but he says he don't remember. Please help I don't know if the is natural for a guy. I feel really hurt, angry and feel like he's cheating on me.

By HERWriter Guide September 1, 2014 - 9:07am

Hi Mousy! 

Masturbation is perfectly normal for both men and women. Masturbation is not cheating. Many of us have been raised to think it's wrong due to religious dogma but there is nothing wrong with it at all. 

However, if you literally mean "hours" per day, then this could be a problem if it interferes in his life. Normal is what does NOT cause problems in life, is not illegal or immoral. 

I don't believe he doesn't remember all this, unless he has a brain condition that could cause this. He is saying he doesn't remember because he doesn't want to talk about it. 

If this is affecting you (and I don't blame you) it might to time to reevaluate your relationship and ask yourself if this is what you want from life.



September 1, 2014 - 9:07am

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