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always my fault?

By December 3, 2012 - 10:09am

I have been married for just under two years together for more and we have 4 young kids and the last few months have been a nightmare, my husband tells me he is bored with our relationship, he doesn't like my attitde i'm not "girly" enough for him , he feels like he works hard all day and he should not have to come home and work some more, he has stated he wants to separate but is unsure about divorce. He has made it clear everything will work out as long as i give him what he wants. He is also Bipolar which makes it etremely hard to explain and compromise with him. I love my husband very much and have never had a problem taking the sole responsibility on of the houshold as long as he played with the kids and treated me with respect which seems to be a problem for him, he can be a very degrading person not just to me but women in general i think he believes women are beneath him . although he cannot take criticism towards himself at all. so to make this work am i just supposed to suck up my pride, take the blame and hope for the best?

By December 28, 2012 - 3:19am

You should start talking with him on the topic that he like. Talk about his interests and the things he like. In couple of days he will be back towards you.

December 28, 2012 - 3:19am
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By Anonymous December 7, 2012 - 5:35pm

Hi vanessa227,

Welcome to EmpowHER and thanks for sharing your story.  Here you will find answers and support from others that are feeling the same. 



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