One minute my boyfriend is asking me why I don't talk about how great he is in bed anymore, and the next he accuses me of being sex obsessed and that all I want him for is sex. I’m literally damned if I do, damned if I don’t. I’m on a roller coaster – how do I get off? I do like sex with him, I admit it. But I’m starting not to want sex with him anymore, because regardless of how good he is physically, it’s becoming increasingly emotionally traumatic, and I’m not an automaton who can go a week with nothing but rejection and then just turn on the desire once a week on schedule and then turn it off again as soon as it’s not convenient. Suggestions, anyone?