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My husband does not trust me !!!

By October 26, 2013 - 5:06am

I am married for 8 years and I have two kids. I was having rough times with my Husband. We just had a serious discussion. What my Husband mentions as a root cause of the problem is " He saw me kissing a customer at my office 10 years before". I remember he saw me while someone was whispering near my ears asking how I spent the weekend and I saw my then "BF " walking in & I introduced the guy to him. It has been such a long time I couldn't even rembember what the guy looks like. I do not have any feelings for that person. Now my husband is telling me that he has never trusted me as he has seen me kissing a guy while we are in a relationship. I swear to God I have been faithful in this relationship. How can I clear his mind and get the love and respect I deserve from My lovely Husband?

By HERWriter Guide November 11, 2013 - 12:20pm

I agree with Maya - I think your husband is trying to make life difficult for some unknown reason. You have never cheated and haven't earned any distrust so this is unfair for you.

I think something may be going on with your husband - this is an issue stemming from him and not you. Talk to him about it and don't be defensive. Ask him open ended questions as to why he thinks you are untrustworthy and do not let him undermine you - be firm!



November 11, 2013 - 12:20pm
By October 29, 2013 - 3:59am

If he never trusted you why is he still with you? I think this is something he said to hurt you, and it's not true. He's acting like a baby and you seriously need to talk to him about it and your relationship and definitely need to tell him how you feel when he doesn't trust you. Be open and ask him to be open with you. Tell him that you love him frequently and be specific about the things you love about him. I hope this helps, be strong and good luck!

October 29, 2013 - 3:59am

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