New Vibe Purchase
I am 24 and lost my virginity last September. Although I am grateful that my lover takes his time with me and tries to give me what I need/want, I have never had an orgasm. I think the struggle is I don't know what I need/want in order to make that happen. I've never really masturbated before and so when he tells me to do what feels good or asks for guidance...I don't know! And on my few self-discovery attempts, I've tried doing my favorite things that he does but it always feels better when he does it. I'm still on the self-discovery journey but often get frustrated and give up; then I just want to wait for him and not have to worry about it. Recently, I decided maybe I should try a vibrator and that would help me discover more about myself and maybe give a boost to our sex life together. Any comments or suggestions related to orgasm, new vibrator usage, and/or introducing a vibrator to sex with him would be greatly appreciated.