The Misconceptions of Sex

By Susan Cody HERWriter Guide
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Birth control options like the Pill and condom are very effective (up to 98-99 percent) when used exactly as directed, although there are many more options like birth control shots, sponges, spermicidal inserts/foams, patches, natural planning (the ‘rhythm method’) and sterilization.

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Me and my boy friend were makong out and we were unclothed his penis touched my vagina buy he didnt ejaculate after this I gave him a blowjob and he got something out but not ejaculation I thingk those touched my vagina too. And I was very wet , this month i missed my period because I always have it on like the 24th or 25th and today is the 1st am I pregnant or its just paranoia ? Ps ; Iwas really stressed this month because I had my first sat trial amd my scoring so I was really worried

June 30, 2014 - 6:20pm
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I believe the answer to my question is no but I have been worried sick and so I am just looking for reassurance.
My boyfriend and I were dry humping, not for a long period of time. Anyways, I was wearing lace underwear and he was in tight boxers. He did not ejaculate, but there was some pre-cum and I was slightly wet.
Is there a slight possibility of pregnancy?

June 11, 2014 - 10:05pm
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anon! 

There is no chance of pregnancy from what you describe! 



June 20, 2014 - 2:22pm
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So me and my boyfriend didnt have intercourse ever but he kinda gave jerks in my anal area(he didnt penetrate anally) three days back with his bare penis (he dint cum nor was there any precum fluid)i have light cramps and back ache but there is no spotting ,my periods are due 14th this month i am so stressed out thinking i am pregnant am i ? Should i wait for my periods ?

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