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Am i losing my boyfriend?

By March 22, 2010 - 11:45am
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I've been dating a man for over 2 years and we've had some ups and downs. But in the last few months he has had a impotence problem. Sex has become very frustrating. I convinced him to see a doctor and there was nothing really to blame medically though he is in his 40's. He says it has nothing to do with me but he doesn't call me like he used to, and just isn't as attentive.We only get to see each other on weekends because of work schedules. I feel like he's going through the motions and he say's that he think's, I'm going through the motions! I asked him to talk to me about whats going on that I need reassurance on how he feels about me and he turned around and asked if I was wanting a reason to get out of this relationship. Everything I try to say he takes it completely wrong and actually turns it back at me. Am I saying it wrong I just want to communicate or should I just give up? I'm getting depressed!

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