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fear in intercourse

By January 5, 2012 - 9:43am
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i 30 yrs old woman, married from 5 yrs but still can't
allow my husband for intercourse. I don't know what happens to me when he will
try to insert, i feel too much fear and he will stop.in upper part of vagina only, i will feel pain. he is very understanding and never force me. i don't have any past sexual abuse problems in childhood. now i m dying for one child but wihout intercourse it is not possible, plz help me

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hi susan
today, i went to doctor.
she saw my reports and told that everything is normal.
then she again examined my vagina and told that my vagina
opening is too small and suggested for surgery to make it big.
i m tooooo much scared, i will not go for surgery, i think she is
mistaken, whta to do, plz help me, can it be possible?

January 14, 2012 - 10:16am

it is endometrium

January 13, 2012 - 2:51am

hi susan,
my scan reports came, it shows normal retroverted uterus with thickened(1.5 cm) enmetrium.
now what should i do?

January 13, 2012 - 2:50am

hi susan
i never went for pap test, i even never heard about it earlier but now i searched and got the answer that it is to detect cervical cancer. now i will go for pelvic test but i m scared becoz i m virgin. they will insert the camera too much deep, will it be painful? what should i do, she also told me to do haemogram,urine,vdrl,hbsag,hiv,blood sugar,urea,t3,t4,tsh,prolactin tests. i don't know why these many tests.

i m unable to put finger in my vagina, what to do, i don't know, i m very much tensed, always i m thinking these things only, not getting sleep in night becoz of this.

January 11, 2012 - 8:42pm

hi susan
i went to doctor yesterday and she told me some exercises to do.
she also told me to insert my finger slowly whenever possib le.
i am doing exercise regularly but putting finger is difficult, i can just put inside the vaginal opening, can't insert inside. she also told me for pelvic scan, do u think it is required?
one more question, can i get pregnant without penetration just by putting husband's sperm into the vaginal opening while doin sex

January 11, 2012 - 5:46am

thanks susan
i will meet doctor soon and i will let u know
the results, plz pray for me

January 5, 2012 - 9:46pm
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