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My boyfriend and i have been together for a while now and we used to have sex regually, now we havent in about two months, i have asked him and he either says i dont know or cant be F*cked.
also he ditches me to play video games with his friends when we make plans together, i know he dosnt cheat on me because we are together a fair bit and his friends would tell me.
he has alot of break downs too he is depressed and wont admit it.
please help me i feel like we are drifting/falling apart and i dont know what to do
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EbonyJaide,
I know it may seem to you as though you are the problem, but the truth is that if your boyfriend is Depressed sex is actually the last thing on his mind.
I think you and him should take the time to focus on him getting better right now. Has he seeked any help for his depression? Have you seeked help for him?
Being understanding and communicating is the key when you have a loved one who is suffering from depression. If you need help finding a doctor in your area, you can visit: http://locator.apa.org/
Sex is important in any relationship but in your case, we need to find a solution to the underlying problem which is your boyfriends mental health. Don't fret, with help and lots of support from you, he can overcome this and so will you.
December 1, 2009 - 6:28amThis Comment