How to remove the fear of pain of first intercourse?

I'm also going throug this , I'm 8 years married nd still can't do sex, I have seen so many gynaecologist but nothing worked , I also had anaesthesia for sex but the fear is still same !! I'm just so frustrated with myself right now !! People n family are against me now, they Dnt talk nice to me , I want to have sex and have a baby but I dnt know how to overcome this fear of sex , I use to think I'm the only one like this, I want to have sex to make my life easy n happy !! Please suggest something !! I had counsellings nd therapies aswell nothing worked!!

Hello doc...
I have very bad fear of sex... And i dnt know why... Infact i wants to do more than my hubby. But when ever he try to inside me i step back... And after that hus behavior soo much changed... Then he never try close to me or love me... Plz help me out... I want baby now...

We are married since 2013 and running our 4 th year now. Whenever my husband touch the hole, i feel very painful followed by fainting and vomiting. But, i myself ask him to do it in the upper side of the vagina and i really getting mood and getting wet. He says he is completely satisfied with the intercourse. But, whenever i am going for a pelvic exam i am under tremendous pressure and when i enter inside the doctor's cabin i am getting blackout and vomiting on seeing the instrument and i recover almost after 1 hour. This happend on 2 occasions with 2 different gynaecologists. I am really expecting to have a baby but i don't know how to overcome ths problem. Please suggest.

I am with my boy frnd for 10 yrs and we nevr had sex since we decided not to have premarital sex.now we have been married for 3 weeks and i am pushing him away while penetrating. I let finger me one day and i bled considerably.Then i started putting my finger and started getting comfortble with finger.I dont resist much when he puts his finger in my vagina.We have bought vaginal dialators to make myself used to the foriegn object penetartion.He was able insert first 2 sizes with ease and very less pain.But i am still scarred to penis penetration.when i said i want to get comfortable witn all size dialators my husband became very frustrated that he has been waiting for 10 yrs and because of my usless fears its going to take forevr to have sec.i love him very much and i want make him happy.but how do i make him understand me fear and that i need little more time to overcome my fear.we both njoy oral sex and i get wet well during foreplay.i am almost 30.If i dont overcome my fear i myself will be breaking my marriage and 10 yrs relation.i am very depressed and not able to concentrate on anything.

I have been married for 1 year and 4 months. We have been trying to figure out what makes me to back out from sex, but its just I am scared of the pain. One day my husband suggested me to consult a doctor and take her advise. To my bad she scolded me in front of my husband and nurses in the room that I was hurt so badly. Since I am very good at emotional control I did not break out at the movement but the next day when husband left for work I cried my heart out. At this point of time I got a call from my MIL telling BIL wife is pregnant. I know my husband is angry, sad, frustrated but I am helpless. I watched him scold me, curse me, screaming at me but nothing went inside my head, I was thinking how lucky my SIL is,she had a happy sex life now a baby. I am happy for her but as well i am wreaked. It made me feel that I am useless.
I started searching for advised online and came across this page and found that I am not the only one who is suffering from this problem. Reading this page calms me down and try to overcome my fear and is mentally preparing for it. May be soon everything will be alright and I will too have a baby. Thank you to all who took time to give advises and thank you for reading my experience.

Hello,
After reading many posts here i feel am not the only one afraid of having intercourse for the first time.
Its been a year of my marriage i am still avoiding having intercourse. And because of that have several tensions between my husband and me.
Whenever he tries to do i push him back. With which he gets angry and things get worse between us. Being a girl i really want to have sex but i cant get over the fear of pain. I dnt understand sometimes either i dont want to have with him or he is not able to do it properly and blaming me or its all about my fear that its not happening. Please help me.

Chells.

Does anyone have idea about therapy treatment for this fear?how long does it take to recover?