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EmilyBrown13
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I had last sex with my fiancé 3 years back, we will be getting within 2 months. Just wanted to know is it going to hurt again when we have sex after so long? Please let me know.

By January 18, 2019 - 3:09am
 
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I had last sex with my fiancé 3 years back, we will be getting married within 2 months.. just wanted to know is it going to hurt again when we have sex after so long? Please let me know. :)

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SusanC
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Hello Emily

Thank you for writing.

Sex usually hurts in the beginning due to a person not being relaxed enough - this is a normal reaction. We cannot tell you if sex will hurt for you again but try to relax as much as you can. You have had sex before so use plenty of lubricant, take your time and enjoy kissing and foreplay before penetration.

Best,
Susan

January 18, 2019 - 11:09am

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EmilyBrown13
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Thank you

February 6, 2019 - 4:16pm

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