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I have never gotten much pleasure from intercourse . . . whats wrong with me . . ?

By November 29, 2014 - 9:06am
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I am a 29 year old woman. i am married with 2 children. for some reason i struggle with sexual desire and i also have never received much pleasure from sex. it just feels like pressure to me. i can orgasm with a vibrator but thats it. i have never had any other type of orgasm. My husband will use the vibrator so that i can orgasm but then after that im like "ok lets get this over with." i feel bad because i really love my husband and i know he wants me to be satisfied but i feel like it doesnt feel like much for me and really never has. i lost my virginity when i was 16 and it has never felt like much of anything for me. i get really hypersensitive and squeemish when he goes down on me. i guess it feels good but i get super uncomfortable. . . anyone else have this issue. i am so embarrassed about this. i brought it up to my doctor but it was kinda swept under the rug so i dont know what else to do but just grin and bare it and fake it when i am having sex with my husband.

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