i have never reached orgasm or climaxed during intercourse what must i do?

Thanks a lot! I hope, your advice will help and I`ll let you know about the result. But speaking about consulting a doctor, in my country it is not so usual to come to a gynecologist and say "I can`t orgasm during intercourse", so maybe we`ll try to solve this problem ourself. If not, I`ll consult a sexual therapist.

Yes, that`s ok, but what shall we do to climax during the intercourse? Are there any ways to make it possible?

Hi gelove,

Thank you for your question. A woman learning to orgasm or climax is very different then men and I will do my best to try and help you understand how we work so you can experience the feeling.

First of all, the common misconception is that women will climax while the men's penis is entering the vagina. Although there is a g-spot which in side the vagina, but this is hard to accomplish and I am just merely mentioning this and moving on.

Second, a woman's clitoris is the money maker here. Once you are sexually aroused, your clitoris becomes very sensitive. If your partner is not familiar with the sensitivity of the clitoris, you can both learn. The important thing to learn is, you or or partner must manipulate this area. Be sure it is lubricated. Understand that manipulation of this area, should be soft and not hard. If you manipulate too hard, this will cause a numb feeling and it will be harder for you to climax. Once you know your body and you feel differently in that area, keep going. You will be amazed with the results.

I hope this helps you better understand how to reach climax. Men and women experience climax very differently. A piece of advice, try this yourself too. Once you understand the mechanics which makes you climax, you will never forget. Don't give up either, keep going until it works.

Let me know if this helps you. Keep us updated.