I was with my bf for 2year. We always had ups and downs. I loved him and I saw myself with him in the future.He cheated on my at the very beginning. I forgot about it (kind of).Sometimes I was not comfortable having sex with him for two reasons: 1) he has herpes and never wanted to use condom. 2) I was afraid of him being with someone else without using protection. I never told him this. When we broke up, he said I was not open to sex and he never saw me really interested on sex. I want him back.I told him I will move with him 1 or 2 mo to try have a relationship(he always complain I was too busy), and he said no. I know he is having sex with someone.what do I do to win him back? Should ask how serious is his new relationship? Should ask for a chance again? Should I tell him why I was not comfortable during sex?