My bf and I dry humped this past month and i was wondering if i could be pregnant?

Hooray! I bet you have never been so happy to see your period show up in your life. That is great news, and I know that everything will be just fine from now on for both of you as you'll learn from this experience.

Thank you so much for saying that if you have another question you'll come back to this website. That really means a lot to me.

Big hugs to you, M

Hi, flowerpower!

I'm so very, very happy for you. I know these past days have been full of worry and fear for you and your boyfriend both. I know this is a huge relief.

May I echo Michelle's words, however, and urge you to use condoms or another form of birth control now and in the future? Because you are so in love, it seems unreasonable to believe that at some point, you won't go further in your exploration of sex.

Have you and your boyfriend discussed what comes next in terms of protection? Can you insist on that protection before you are intimate again?

Like Michelle, I'm so glad you found this site. Take care, and I hope you never have another scare like this one. Pregnancy changes every single thing about your life, and I know that seems very real to you right now. I'm so glad you are OK, and that all is well.

I got my period! Yay, thank you so much for all your help! If i have anyother questions I will come back to this site. Thank you for all your help and support again! :) My boyfriend and I are so happy,we've been dating for 15 months as of yesterday!<3 I love him and now we are better than ever!

Good for you for already talking to your boyfriend about this and for knowing that playing it safe is the way to go from here on out. I think your experience with your Mom is exactly like what many other girls (and guys!) your age are going through. I know exactly what you are talking about with your Mom. Maybe over time you can feel more comfortable asking her a few questions, just to start communicating. She might surprise you and be very helpful.

I believe that when you first start getting your period the cycle length can vary quite a bit at first before getting more regular. I even remember that happening with me when I was young. I honestly don't know of any remedies that make your period come any sooner. As for getting less stressed, maybe try some deep breathing exercises like breathe in and hold it for 3-5 seconds, then breathe out and hold it for 3-5 seconds, and repeat this several times. Or going for walks can be relaxing too. Talking about your feelings and getting things out is good too, so either here or with your boyfriend.

Please post again and let us know what's going on--I hope your period has shown up by now. Big hugs, M

Dear Flowerpowergirlx3,

Thank you so much for visiting the website and for posting your questions.

I am so glad that you found us and that you posted about your situation. We really want to help you, and we want to be sure that you get all of the information that you need. This is a safe environment and I’m so happy that you came to us.

From what I’ve read, I agree that the chances that you are pregnant are very very slight. Pre-ejaculate usually does contain sperm and so I can understand why you are concerned though. I’d be worried too. But I’m also thinking that your period might not actually be truly late yet, since February is a short month and you lost a couple of days there in your count. Depending on how many days apart your cycle is you might not be late at all. And lots of things other than pregnancy can make your period late by a few days. Stress is one of them and it sounds like you are definitely feeling stressed right now and I don’t blame you one bit! There are other things too that can cause it.

White discharge can come from the vagina at different points of the cycle. Some get it mid-month, others get it right before their periods. I know you said it’s normal for you, so what time does it usually show up? if it’s right by your period time then to me it seems like it’s a sign that all is well and you are not pregnant.

Since you have indicated that a pregnancy would not be a good thing right now, it’s pretty important that you and your boyfriend discuss how to keep this situation from happening again. Believe me, I know what it’s like to be young and in love and wanting to show that love to your boyfriend. And it sounds like you were trying to experiment in a way that you figured wouldn’t cause any problems. But since it is causing you so much worry right now, it’s time to talk with him and agree on safer ways of showing your love for each other.

One thing I’d love to know, if you don’t mind my asking, is why you came here for help. Do you have nowhere else to go for advice about sexually-related things? If that’s the case, I don’t think you are alone in your feelings at all. I would love to be that supportive place for you, but I am curious if you have anyone else you can talk to about this, like your Mom, a close relative, etc. I get questions like yours a lot and it seems like so many teens are needing to get some very important questions about sex answered, but that many of you don’t have a person in your lives who can help you. Is this the case for you?

And along those lines, if we can do anything to improve the website to help teenage girls like yourself, please let me know. I'd really value and appreciate your feedback.

Please keep me posted on what goes on, and when your period shows up. Please let me know if you need any other information or if I can help you in any other way. I’m proud of you for coming here and asking for help! Big hugs, Michelle

Ok thank you I will keep you updated!

I absolutely cannot get pregnant! I am only 15 and this will completely ruin everything!!!! Thank you for your answer but do you have anything to say about how late my period is and if it is normal or about the white discharge i am talking about??

Also.. I had my period february 26th last month and now it is march 30th and still no period! And i am usually not late.