I lost my virginity when I was 19 and have had many partners. Most of them were hookups who didn't care about my needs or whether I got what I wanted. However, it is becoming increasingly stressful that I have never had an orgasm from clitoral stimulation or from penetration. Whenever I do end up with a partner I fake it everytime. And of course the sex feels good, its not like it doesn't but I don't reach a climax. I have tried masterbating with my fingers and it just doesn't do anything for me. I have been looking into vibrators to see if that will solve the problem or at least help me find the spot. Is there something else that I'm missing throughout this whole process? I feel as if there is something wrong with me and its starting to affect my willingness to get close to anyone let alone get in bed with them.. Please help!
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