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Pregnancy scare

By August 9, 2019 - 9:40pm
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Okay soooo on the 26th 27th and 28th of July i spent the night at my boyfriends house we didn’t have sex so I don’t know why i am stressing but he did finger me and eat me out and i gave him a bj etc we did stuff two of the days i was there the reason i am stressing is my period app said i was supposed to start my period on the 3rd-8th and I realized it was the 9th so i went back because i had gotten a new phone and wanted to make sure there weren’t months were it didn't update that i logged my period so June had nothing so i had to guess when my period was then july I remembered when i last had it so after i logged that it switched from my period coming on the 3rd to the 8th to the 10-16 so i am worrying ive been having cramps and sore boobs but no period and im supposed to start today but nothing yet and ive also been super stressed from work so someone help please!! (I always have my boyfriend wash his hands before fingering me and make sure he doesn't touch his dick then finger me as-well as i always was my hands after i do anything to him)

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Hello, evalol!

Thank you for posting.

May I ask, did you have sex education at school? If not, it's a good idea to study on your own so you know how sex and the human body works. You can read books on this or search our EmpowHER site. This will eliminate a lot of stress that the unknown can cause.

A woman cannot get pregnant unless she has unprotected sex (intercourse) with ejaculation that enters the vagina. The highest chance for this is during ovulation.

So, a pregnancy cannot occur from the scenario you describe. Stress can cause a delay in your period, so try to relax. Your period will come in due time. :)



August 10, 2019 - 6:08am
(reply to Helena)

I was ovulating when we did stuff but i did have sex education and i feel as if its rude the way you worded your comment in the beginning but they don’t really get into details about it in elementary school all they do is talk about the female parts as well as how to put a condom on I’m not retarded and if cum was on his fingers or if he touched his dick with pre cum which could get you pregnant its just a low chance and put them in me there could be a possibility but he didn’t i am just stressing soo yeah i am pretty educated but sometimes us girls can stress and just want someone with more experience to help but thanks lol

August 10, 2019 - 6:39am
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Hi, again!

I was not being rude at all. Far from it. We have many girls and young women that do not know about sex and write to us, some from other countries as well where sex is not easily talked about like it is here. My asking is a way of offering help as there was nothing in your information that would cause pregnancy. We have also helped you on this subject before. Try to relax and wait for your period to come.



August 10, 2019 - 11:41am
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