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By January 31, 2015 - 8:05pm
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hello mam
kindly help me to find out the xact happening happening to me, actuallly on sunday me and bf try to hv oral sex he tried to insert the finger in my vagina bt he didnot put inside he jst touched the tight skin of hymen , i told him to stop as it was paining me after that few days later i found my vagina is open i inserted half of my finger to check the vagina opening as i was waiting for my period i feel bit cramps in my stomach bt does not get my period yet its been 2 days i was waiting for it during this i found my vagina is open ,,,,,, does its means i lost my virginity or its jst natural ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, please clear out my doubt i m very tensed i dont want to get involve thhis type of things please help me/.................as soon as possible answer me please

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hellloo mak u are right i got my period todayyy

February 1, 2015 - 9:08am

Hello and thank you for sharing your question.

I want to understand you properly. Do you mean there has been a change in your hymen? If this is the case, there is no need to worry. The phrase "losing your virginity" refers to the act of a male penetrating the vagina during intercourse. Since this did not happen, you did not "lose your virginity."

The oral sex you had would not make a significant change to your hymen and seeing changes in your hymen is no cause for alarm. You period should be come soon, no need to worry.


January 31, 2015 - 9:27pm
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