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what i shoud do?......i lost my virginity and now i m no longer with my boyfriend? will anybody else marry me now?

By Anonymous April 28, 2009 - 11:56pm
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i m 18 yrs girl. i had a boyfrd .he love me very much and once we did sex also. but now i have to leave him becoz he is of different caste and my family do not agree so i left him...

now i m in tension.....now what i should do.? will anybody else marry me now...
now what i should say to the boy whom my parents would select for me..?
i should tell him abt that sex....or not.?plz tell me what i should do?

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any one say me is there medical ways to find that i have had sex with a boy other than my hubby? pls help me i am help less

July 1, 2010 - 12:30am
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Be confused. It promotes learning.

May 6, 2009 - 6:33am
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I think it is more common to find young teenage woman having premarital sex. You are certainly not the first or the last. It appears that your religious, family, etc. beliefs are what causing the stress in your life. If that is the case, is it really anyone else’s business what you have done? You shared an intimate moment with someone you cared for and that should be between you and him.

I am a very honest person in general but I think some things are better left unsaid. Not a lie, but an exaggeration of the truth. Is it important to be a virgin in your culture?

May 2, 2009 - 10:12am
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I do not understand wheter you are more worried about what to tell the boy chosen by your family as your husband, or about the fact that you cannot choose your love.
Are you really going to leave a man who loves you because he is poor and your family does not want you to marry him? Did your family really select a husband for you? I did not think that this could happen in 2009.

Do you think that the caste system is good? Do you think that girls do not have the right to choose their husband? Do you love that boy?
Please try to answer these questions, try to use your own brain and heart. I hope that you will decide that it's time to change your society's mentality, as we europeans did 40 years ago.

May 1, 2009 - 3:16am
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