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Why am I so horny all the time?

By Anonymous September 5, 2015 - 11:56am
 
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i am a 16 yo virgin... My mind consist around sex all the time. I'm just always horny it's so embarrassing. As I type I'm super horny I don't know what's wrong with me. I think about giving blow jobs and anal sex and somebody giving me head. I watch porn on a basic ... Growing up I've been molested I guess that had something to do with it. I get fantasies out the blue. Every guy I see I want to have sex with them. I even think about having sex with family members I don't know what's wrong with me

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I am like extremely horny all the time now all of a sudden and I have no idea what to do. I have a boyfriend and we have amazing sex but he could never make me orgasm and I've never had a orgasm during sex nor oral I only ever knew how a orgasm felt was by my hands and now I have a toy. But I can't masturbate as much as I want because I've masturbated so much that I'm losing feeling in my clitoris and I'm just dying to get my toy but I know if I do ima kill my clitoris more I am doomed help helppp !!

September 10, 2015 - 10:01pm
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Hello and welcome to EmpowHer,
I'd love to give you some information to help you make sense of your sexual desires.
We should start with addressing your past molestation. When you were molested you were not in control. The molester had total control of your body without you giving them that permission. This violation effects your phycology about sex and manifests itself in the desires you find yourself having now. Your sexual desires and fantasies (whether consciously or unconsciously) from a place of wanting to take control of your sexuality again. This in a pattern in women who have been molested.
There is also a pattern of manipulating someone into having a relationship in order to get sex. This is also a control method to sort of take back what was lost when molested.
Most people who experience what you are feeling do not understand where it is coming from. I'm sensing that's how you feel. So, I want to let you know that you are not crazy. But your phycology towards sex has been damaged because you were molested.
I highly suggest that you seek healing and therapy so that you can have healthy sexual relationships in the future. Healing starts by speaking out. The person who molested you should not get away with it! So the first step in telling someone you trust about what happened. You may also want to talk to a therapist to get tips on how to take control of your sexuality in the healthiest way possible.
Faith

September 5, 2015 - 6:38pm
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