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Actually, I caught him my first time, and he lied about everything. he confessed, said sorry, but, i hear him all the time, espcially in the mornings. He moans, but he denies it. When he could be taking his horny self out on me. I love sex, and i crave it, so i dont see why he is wanting to jerk off, when he has me.
Hes absolutly Lazy! Usually after work, he comes home, and we eat dinner, then usually watch a movie. usually we rent them, but he always falls asleep, we use to sit together on the couch, but he lays down in the other one and just passes out.
If we do have sex, its graved in my mind that, i, have to be on top. If hes horny, and we mess around (which is rare) ill try getting him on top, but of course hes strong and gets me on top, then im stuck there, he dont want to do new sex moves, nothing. Just that one move the entire time. I ask him to switch it up, and he says, next time, but he says next time every time i ask. so then again, im stuck on top. Hes just too lazy to do anything, I dont have a clue waht too do...
Alot of people would say join him. but its kinda hard, when he locks himself in the bathroom, and denies it, so he pretty much kicks me to the side, as though im nothing. What should i Do???
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I forgot to mention that it's a big turn on for me to watch my husband jerk off. I do anything and everything sexuakky for him, I'll even swing from the chandeliers if he wanted me to so I don't understand what the problem is. If it is a need for men to do it then he should never have lied to me about it. I thought men only needed to jerk off when they weren't having sex, but my husband can have it 24/7 if he wants!
August 23, 2016 - 8:25pmThis Comment
I always kno when mine jerk off. I caught him a couple times jerking off right after sex with me. And he's never masturbated in front of me, EVER. He could be laying down, soon as I close my eyes for sleep, wake up, I notice that he's gone. I automatically know what he's doing. He always go to jerk off in the bathroom to lesbian porn, model pics, porn period, etc... and then tries to lie about it. He always gets mad when I catch him , mention it to him. I don't get it, but I do know that it makes me feel so left out, lonely and unwanted. What should I do???
October 31, 2016 - 1:50amThis Comment
That's an interesting perspective. It's good to hear a mans point of view. In my case, I give my husband anything he wants and whenever he wants it! In the 32 years we have known each other (we met as kids) I have never said no to sex. I am "proud" of the fact that I never refused my husband when he wants sex and that is why I feel the need/urge to jerk off shouldn't effect him. Whenever I asked him about jerking off he said he Never does it. Then when I found out that he does it, He claimed to only do it when I'm not home and that it's not that often. He said it was worse when he was younger but it's the fact that whenever I asked him he lied to me about it. That hurts the most
August 23, 2016 - 8:18pmThis Comment
I am married and masturbate still. It's more of a release for me. Don't mean it to be disrespectful to my wife however it can be embarrassing to be caught. Talk to him about it and tell him you enjoy watching him. I know it's a turn on for me to hear my wife tell me she masturbate, or to watch her do it. My advice to your is talk to him, and be open and excepting about it. I am sure that he will appreciate it. As for me I think about my wife as I do it, use her panties and imagine having see with her. The reason I don't always ask for Sex is because she's angry, or I just need that quick release and don't want to give my wife a poor sexual experience. But again, we all do it en and women married or not. So except that he does it and talk to h. I'd he is still wanting to go solo, then remember you too can enjoy masturbate on. Let him do his routine, and as he does play with yourself and enjoy it, allow him to finish and walk out and see you masturbat include there on the bed, you get to enjoy your release, and I know this will be a turn on and exceptable that he needs, and I sure it will help this situation. Don't deprive yourself, and pleasure yourself, as he does worst case both of you will get your release, and be better connected. As they say I'd you can't beat them join them.
November 19, 2016 - 1:39pmThis Comment
Maybe he's in the same boat as many other men, that just get tired of doing all the initiation of it. My girl used to have a sex drive, and with me being the older of us, her's died. So I jack off. Better then going out to find it. When she wants it, oh well, I am satisfied already so deal with it. And now she bitches that we dont do it enough since she found out. Well, maybe she should of thought that it is a 2 way street in a relationship. Just because you own the pussy you got, dont mean ya make the rules.
June 25, 2016 - 11:46amThis Comment
and oh yea WHY DO MEN ALL LIE???
April 24, 2016 - 4:42amThis Comment
Because even if we tell a lie or truth we get bitched at so we lie to try and avoid hearing shit. I will tell you today's society is not conducive to relationships. I much rather jack off than to deal with the bullshit. When I was trying to have sex all the time I was using her as a sex object now we don't have sex and she is upset. But now a day do don't even jack off I can't get an errection and I'm only 36 this marriage has destroyed my man hood I feel like a little boy cuz she treats me like yhAt even though I bring home double what she makes she wears the pants and I can never do anything right cuz I'm s dumb male.
July 13, 2016 - 12:55pmThis Comment
I am not sure if that is the case with yu, but think about choosing an option that is not extreme . Ask her how much sex she wants and have that quantity of sex with her. If she is against against your masturbation, she will probably not mind your masturbation while looking at her naked photos/videos.. Relationship is a negotiation and comrpomise, and if one of you is not ready to negotiate and compromise, then you should better break up than being in a dysfunctional relationship.
January 2, 2017 - 11:26amThis Comment
I would like to say that I am so sorry for you.. If you are unhappy in your relationship than you should do something about it.... Your relationship should be a partnership not a dictatorship... Everyone deserves to be happy.. Put your big boy pants on and make some changes... take back your manhood... good luck to you!!
August 19, 2016 - 3:03amThis Comment
Please leave this relationship...wow. you can do better. Sad to read.
August 4, 2016 - 7:59amThis Comment