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Actually, I caught him my first time, and he lied about everything. he confessed, said sorry, but, i hear him all the time, espcially in the mornings. He moans, but he denies it. When he could be taking his horny self out on me. I love sex, and i crave it, so i dont see why he is wanting to jerk off, when he has me.
Hes absolutly Lazy! Usually after work, he comes home, and we eat dinner, then usually watch a movie. usually we rent them, but he always falls asleep, we use to sit together on the couch, but he lays down in the other one and just passes out.
If we do have sex, its graved in my mind that, i, have to be on top. If hes horny, and we mess around (which is rare) ill try getting him on top, but of course hes strong and gets me on top, then im stuck there, he dont want to do new sex moves, nothing. Just that one move the entire time. I ask him to switch it up, and he says, next time, but he says next time every time i ask. so then again, im stuck on top. Hes just too lazy to do anything, I dont have a clue waht too do...
Alot of people would say join him. but its kinda hard, when he locks himself in the bathroom, and denies it, so he pretty much kicks me to the side, as though im nothing. What should i Do???
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I have same stuff I cought him he say I'm crazy. He is not he uses all lotion. I just dnt understand lieing to me it hurts porn addict lies bout it.
April 24, 2018 - 3:48pmThis Comment
Tell your husband to send that over here!! Lmao nah he probably has issues with sexuality , first time I herd of a guy denying a horny wife.
October 15, 2017 - 12:41amThis Comment
I feel ya! I’m in the same boat but w my bf of a little over a year & he’s constantly denying me...doesn’t like morning sex cuz he has to wake up for 5 minutes...sometimes has to shower first OR he’s going out later and doesn’t want to have to shower so he denies me -__- I also have had many discussions w him and legit only asked that he NOT JERK OFF WHEN IM HOME....and he’s “mr. why would I do that if you’re here?” Yet I’m always HERE and he never comes on to me!
I’m super open and want him to just be honest that he’s been doing it and for him to know It’s not AT ALL about the jerking off...it’s that you 1. Look me in my eyes & tell me to believe you would never do it 2. I CAN HEAR YOU OVER YOUR PHONE BLASTING VIDEOS W PORNOS IN THE BACKGROUND 3. It makes it seem sketchy 4. It makes me feel unwanted or selfish of how much you love yourself more than me (I am aware self love is needed, believe me!) but you should have this genuine want to please your partner.
Hope this helped see how common it is, or just helps you see it from a “crazy” girls perspective!
January 28, 2019 - 5:52pmThis Comment
Take it from me.. im a guy that jerks off when im in a relationship. I dont lie if i get caught tho. Here are 3 main reasons a guy would rather do it himself..
a: you dont do it for him.. this could mean you suck at sex... could mean you dont make it hard.. or any combination of the 2.
B : you turn him on but you make it too much work... maybe its too much of a routine where he has to hold and cuddle and rub your back and act like he accidentally touched you there.. then it takes 45 minutes to even get it wet but he has 7 minutes to get ready fir work.. this over time becomes a turn off. The sex may be great... but yiu have to make it ok to just roll over and start poking you if hes up for a quick morning nut.
C: this is common as well.. you dont cum fast or he has to do something special to make u cum. Again in the morning he just wants to blow and go. Maybe hes uncomfortable with pounding one out from behind you and leaving you un satisfied.
Those the 3 reasons i personally would take care of it myself rather than try to have sex. Too much work. No sex skills. Just in a hurry and dont want to involve the time it takes to do you right.
June 10, 2017 - 7:12amThis Comment
That is some selfishness. I'm all about a quickie even if I don't get off. I find it difficult to sympathize with a person that thinks putting a little effort into foreplay to please their lover is just too much work. If I can give him oral for an entire hour or more before we have intercourse, he can take 20 minutes to make sure I'm taken care of as well when it's not a quickie. I have one rule in the bedroom, you get what you give. After giving this situation time to resolve (2 years) & trying to have a conversation with him about finding a remedy for any problems that could be going on & being shut down,there's a good chance I may convert & become a nun.
March 23, 2019 - 12:50pmThis Comment
So what would you say if the girl is willing to give you a blow job whenever he wants and he still prefers to jerk off.
January 1, 2019 - 12:55pmThis Comment
Can you answer me this, I'm in a nearly 5 year relationship and he doesn't really seem to want me anymore, I try to get him going with BJs or kisses or anything really but he just closes his eyes and doesnt really engage at all, Ibe found hentai on his computer in the mornings before I wake up so I know he's getting himself off, now he's always said sex with me is great and fun and when ever I feel of him he is VERY hard, I've never made it much work if anything I'm the one getting it started or jumping the foreplay gun and it never takes me more than one kiss to be completely ready for him, it also doesn't take me very long to reach orgasm at all my max is about 10 in one session( that I could keep count of) and they were all a minute or less apart...... so why is he getting up early and not wanting me but instead going solo?
The only difference between the main question and mine is I haven't confronted him yet..... because I'm not sure how to, he gets very defensive about this mind of thing
July 12, 2018 - 5:21pmThis Comment
My guy lies about it! I've seen and heard him do it!!! I'm not any of those things u mentioned! We have great sex together - I squirt every time - he cums a bit too quickly - I am forever giving him spontaneous blowjobs- I almost always go into the ensuite when he is finished his shower either to have sex or give him a blow job - he has never come up to me when I've finished my shower! He said that he has no reason to masturbate because I'm always there to do it for him and I do it when ever he wants - so why is he doing it anyway and lying about it???
July 10, 2018 - 3:34pmThis Comment
Just lol. From a girl who is on her side. He jerks and denies it. I love sex. Bjs. Oral. I always try to change it up so it's not boring. But still .....
June 14, 2017 - 11:25amI try. He doesn't. Simple as that. Because of that... feelings change ...
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take the bathroom door off that's exactly what I did (Hahaha) & now I can see & hear everything ( of course he was mad as HELL....but eventually he got over it
April 17, 2017 - 3:20amThis Comment