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Why doesnt he want me?

By Anonymous August 14, 2010 - 3:36pm
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Ive been with this guy for 5 months now, everything is going good except for the sex. The first few times when we started dating were great and since then its less and less. Theres always some excuse that hes tired or doesnt feel good or is too sore. Hes a healthy guy, excersizes regularly and eats a healthy diet, i dont see a reason or cause for a low sex drive; Especially at the age of 24. To be honest but not conceded i am an attractive female and he tells me im great and beautiful and sexy and i have a great body and what not. I also found out i am pregnant with his child i have put on a little weight but im no bigger than a size 5. even still it was happening before this.i just dont get it. I dont know if im doing something wrong...i hint i touch him i ask him i play with him i dress up sometimes even beg and he just kind of laughs it off like im joking..am i joke? Is he cheating, is it the pregnancy..ive tried to talk to him but he just says the same things..i tired, im sore, or laughs..what does it mean or how do i get him to tell me the truth? I want him all the time, so much it almost hurts emotionally and mentally not to mention the physical frustration, bc he doesnt seem to want me the same. theres no passion, he doesnt even ever make out with me..does anyone have any ideas?!!!

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