In a past relationship, the guy I was seeing would withold sex from me. So my insecurities are there. When I first began seeing this new guy, almost two years ago, I wanted something different, I didnt want a relationship based soley on sex, so I tried taking baby steps. We didnt have sex unti labout three months into our relationship. We had great sex, everytime, all the time. Now, over a year later, I cant even remember when the last time I had sex was. I was to think it was four or five months ago. I have tried talking to him about, and he claims its stress. He has no stress. He has a great job where he plays all day, he doesnt have to cook, clean, deal with kids, nothing. We live in a house with our room mate and dog, and do the 'domestic thing'. we go out with friends occassionally, we eat dinner, go grocery shopping, blah, blah, blah. I try to make things happy and nice for him, again, cooking, cleaning, letting him go out with his friends, litterally whenever he wants. I know FOR A FACT he isnt cheating on me and there isnt a porn obsession (as with another ex). It makes me cry. And I cry at him sometimes, because it hurts that bad. "why dont you want me anymore, whats wrong with me, what happened, dont you love me anymore?" are all questions I have asked, on more than one occassion, a few I have asked a couple times. He isnt nearly as affectionate as he used to be, doesnt hug me or kiss me or even hold my hand really, unless I point it out, that hes ignoring me. I have even tried sending him naughty pictures in hopes of spicing things up. And I dont get a response. Where when I used to do that in the begining he would leave work to come to me. I dont know what to do. And it so breaks my heart.
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