So, in my early teens, I was raped. I know, get over it, it happens. During this, my rapist took a knife and sliced off the underside of my clit and parts of my labia. I suspect he was trying to cut off my clit, but he could have just been trying to maim. Who knows. That isn't the point. The point is that it has consequences to this day that affect my sex life. My partner is very understand a sweet when it comes to our sex life. But unfortunately, it doesnt matter what he does, I'm too pain sensitive to orgasm from anything he does. Touching the underside of my clit send fire through that area and it is very hard to avoid. Any amount of pressure over the barest touch is enough to make me jerk away in pain. I can get myself off, but it really just doesn't feel that great. I am on antidepressants long-term, which has ruined any sensation. It is starting to keep me from wanting sex at all because it isnt satisfying for me. He does his best and I feel terrible. This is eating away at me.. Help?..
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