I am a graduate of Sarah Lawrence College and Pushcart Prize nominated essayist. My blog, A Word Please, has been given the Discover Award for the best writing on WordPress. Married over 20 years and the mother of two teens, I am devoted to tennis, thank you notes, dogs and a zealous study of the Art of Hospitality. After spending a lifetime depressed, today I manage my health through exercise, sleep, routine, mindfulness and prayer. At EmpowHer I specialize in Emotional Health; I write for women tortured by self-doubt or mental illness, offering a simple path towards wholeness. Follow me at www.awordplease.org.
Do you know which cancer that kills the most women? It isn’t breast cancer. In 1987, lung cancer surpassed breast cancer as the number one cause of cancer deaths in women.(5)
Lung cancer is ...
December 1, 2016 - 10:36am
“Dad's sick. Aortic aneurysm. Unlikely to survive surgery.”
Within hours I was on an airplane to Indiana, and my brother was on another airplane coming from the East. “He has a 10-percent ...
November 15, 2016 - 7:38am
I drink Coca-Cola if my stomach feels funny, sleep with peeled garlic in my ears when I have earaches and drink cranberry juice when I have a frequent urge to “go.” Doesn’t ...
November 7, 2016 - 6:51am
In the early days of mental health care, psychiatric patients were handcuffed and shackled in large, underfunded institutions.(3)(5)
Prior to World War II, mental health care was not covered ...
October 19, 2016 - 6:35am
Have you changed the light bulbs in your house to fluorescents and LEDs? Do you take your own grocery bags to the store? Do you keep your car tuned up and tires inflated? This can increase fuel ...
October 7, 2016 - 10:57am
“Basket case” is kind of a catchy phrase — fun to say, rolls off the tongue nicely. The movie “Breakfast Club” referred to the quirky, shy girl as the basket case, a character I’ve identified with ...
October 5, 2016 - 7:34am
How authentic are you? Authenticity, or being true to oneself, is a moral state according to researchers from Northwestern University.(1)
Are you comfortable with yourself, comfortable ...
September 30, 2016 - 9:07am
You have a cancer diagnosis — Check.
You’ve been prescribed a course of chemo — Check.
Nausea ensues — Check.
Your concentration is gone, along with your memory and word retrieval. ...
September 28, 2016 - 10:05am
How you feel about access to health care probably says a lot about your politics. When the Affordable Care Act was being debated, 61 percent of Democrats favored the law versus only 12 percent of ...
September 26, 2016 - 10:32am
In June I attended my twenty-fifth college reunion. Preparing for the drive down, I joked on Facebook, “I hope I can publish a book, get a facelift and lose 30 pounds in the next 3 hours.” ...
September 23, 2016 - 9:45am
Gratitude is among the first social graces we teach our children. For every cookie, every birthday gift and every kind word, we incessantly remind them, “Say thank you.”
Gratitude is among ...
September 19, 2016 - 9:46am
Would you know if you were having a heart attack? More importantly, would your doctor correctly diagnose you? Possibly not, according to a recent study by the University of Leeds.
Using their ...
September 14, 2016 - 9:38am
I’m a forty-something, never-thin woman who started playing tennis about four years ago. After a few years of playing two to five times a week, I started paying the piper for my enthusiasm — knee ...
September 2, 2016 - 7:00am
Our culture is rife with suggestions on how to inoculate our brains against dementia: learn a language, eat olive oil, and drink coffee.
We can exercise (I know a lot of bright old people ...
August 29, 2016 - 6:14am
Depression has been my companion since at least the age of 10. My father suffered from it. Probably one of his parents did, but as a child of immigrants in an era where mental illness was ...
August 25, 2016 - 9:43am
Quick! Where’s your body? Are you folding up compact and snug like origami, or is your body dominating your space, arms akimbo and feet spread?
Like it or not, your body is projecting ...
August 22, 2016 - 3:36pm
How have you navigated the losses in your life — layoffs, divorce, a cancer diagnosis? Anxiety and depression are normal responses to adversity. But how long did it take to reset your course? ...
August 11, 2016 - 10:36am
As addressed in Religion and Medicine on the Right to Die, with the exception of Unitarianism, the world’s major religions reject euthanasia: God alone decides the length of our days.
But when ...
August 9, 2016 - 6:27am
How rude are you?
Manners are on the decline, as discussed in my first article on the subject, “How Rude Are You? Manners for Millennials.”
Good manners aren’t English country-home secrets ...
August 1, 2016 - 6:52am
Despite what health writers like me tell you about balance and self-care, caregiving is rife with stress, including self-denial, self-sacrifice, exhaustion and grief.
A Google search of “Stress ...
July 29, 2016 - 7:10am
In 2005, John Rehm, husband of radio producer and NPR host Diane Rehm, was diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease. In 2012, John entered assisted living.
After two years of continuous decline, ...
July 27, 2016 - 6:40am
Newsflash: If you aren’t trying to be polite, chances are people find you rude.
But who defines polite? The dinner table, once a school of social-emotional health, where many children learned ...
July 26, 2016 - 10:38am
A lifelong sufferer of depression, I want depressed people to get well however they can. I am not anti-med. But being on meds requires managing the side effects of those meds.
There is no ...
July 25, 2016 - 6:34am
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How well are you hydrating? Remember, good hydration is more than just the eradication of thirst.
Water covers 71 percent of the earth’s surface and comprises about 60 ...
July 19, 2016 - 10:41am
First off, let’s address the hocus pocus of the “detox” trend. No randomized, controlled scientific trials have been performed to prove detox diets work.(1)
Your kidneys and liver are ...
July 19, 2016 - 6:22am
How do you experience being female? Do you equate your worth with your sexual attractiveness? Do you enjoy the attention you garner with a pretty face, or large breasts, or high heels and a short ...
July 8, 2016 - 7:37am
All of sudden, the waste bins in dorms seem to fill instantaneously with tampon wrappers and tissue-wrapped pads. The mantra of every woman caught unprepared echoes through the halls, “Do you have ...
June 27, 2016 - 5:32am
Are they big enough? Too big? Perky? Drooping? Breasts are a powerful symbol of femininity, and their idealization represents an impossible standard for most women.
Think of Marilyn Monroe, ...
June 25, 2016 - 6:48pm
As women, our physiology and our place in society affect how much stress we encounter and how well we manage that stress. The chemical reaction in the brain called the “fight or flight response”, ...
June 21, 2016 - 3:47pm
The World Health Organization classifies migraine as one of the top 20 most disabling illnesses on the planet. This illness of the brain is now linked to diseases of the heart.
One-fifth of the ...
June 20, 2016 - 5:12am
Kate had been happily married for 23 years. Her husband, John, was a stockbroker on Wall Street. They had two children, a home in New Jersey with a housekeeper, gardener, and pool man, and a ...
June 17, 2016 - 9:11am
White middle-aged Americans are experiencing a dramatic decline in life expectancy, according to a study released in 2015. Death rates for white Americans between the ages of 45 and 54 increased ...
June 13, 2016 - 10:08am
In April 2011, Pamela Chanko’s parents, Mark and Anita, returned from a trip to an empty fridge. Her father ran to the store for bananas and milk. While crossing a Manhattan street, he was hit by ...
June 8, 2016 - 6:31am
Depressed people are isolated people. Loneliness is a self-selecting symptom of the illness. And like their brothers-in-arms, the pessimists, we more accurately assess our total lack of control ...
June 1, 2016 - 9:25am
In 2008, Fred Holliday went to the doctor with fatigue and hypertension. He had lost a lot of weight and intermittently had blood in his urine.
By January 2009, he had developed rib pain and a ...
May 28, 2016 - 8:27am
Years ago, my cousin in San Diego invited us for a beach weekend. Who says no to that? My husband and I set out with the kids on a road trip to spend time with extended family and acquaint our ...
May 25, 2016 - 5:45am
My father had hypoxic dementia due to a cardiac surgery gone amiss. When I sat with him in the garden at his rehabilitation center, he repeatedly asked to see his parents.
My father was 75. ...
May 19, 2016 - 9:08am
Bipolar disorder is a genetic medical condition. People with it experience cycles ranging from being depressed with low energy to hyperactive or manic. According to TheMighty.com, “about 5.7 ...
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