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Am I pregnant?

By January 10, 2012 - 5:58am
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Hi, I had this sexual intercourse with my boyfriend last December 30, 2011 & January 2, 2012. What I am worrying about is my intercourse with him last December 30, 2011. We never had penis penetration into my vagina. But I was able to hold his penis with semen on it. I dried this hand that I used in touching his penis at his back and was still kissing him. My clothes are still on during this intercourse especially my shorts. I can't remember a moment that I touched my perineal area with the hand I used in touching up his penis. When I got home from the intercourse, I can't remember if I touched my perineal area...

Hmm. I'm really worried because I have Irregular Menstruation. My menstruation not shows up especially when I am severely stressed... I had my last menstruation last November 7 that lasted for 3 days. I can also feel a bit of pain in my back (in my sacral area) & abdomen. I think the pain in my abdomen is due to my eating pattern because I usually eat less now a days because I'm thinking that I am pregnant.... Right now, I think I have seen white menses on my undies. I'm planning to take the Pregnancy Test on Friday (January 13) I'm taking it 2 weeks after the incident. I'm planning to take it again on the 3rd week (January 20) and 4th week (January 27) just to be sure.

Please tell me I can't be pregnant with that sexual activity. -.-
I'm a bit paranoid already.

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Hi Thinkhappythoughts,

Like I said in your previous post. If you didn't have intercourse it's unlikely to be pregnant, especially if you were wearing clothes. The delay on your menstrual might be due to you stressing about being pregnant. Sometimes we're so stressed out that our body decreases the amount of a hormone (GnRH), which causes us to not ovulate or menstruate. It might be good to wait a few days and take a home pregnancy test. But it's unlikely to be pregnant if you didn't have intercourse.



January 10, 2012 - 7:17am
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Thank You Daisy. :)

January 10, 2012 - 8:20am

****I can't remember a time that I touched my perineal area with the hand I used in touching up his penis at that very moment.

January 10, 2012 - 6:02am
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