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every time i have sex i dont get an orgasm.

By Anonymous May 6, 2009 - 1:36pm
 
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i recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend of two years. he is my first and i am his first. i cant get an orgasm when we have sex. i dont feel anything actually. but when he goes hard i feel the need to pee! so then i relax or take advantage of it thinking its an orgasm but then i feel my blatter will explode! help please! oh and when i masterbate i get one!

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Anonymous

Most likely it can be your just getting very wet that it feels like pee as..well

September 23, 2009 - 2:07am
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Anonymous

your problem might be dont think too much and dont have any liquids if you know your gonna be alone with your guy...take a deep breath and count 1-5 at 5th let go...
what also might help if you use lubricate to essential your glands....
and the top solution would be you have to find a sex position you like more so you can be so into it or like it much you will feel your in the heavens =D

p.s. you can also do the Kegel exercise...( which is squeeze in your gland together in and out 4-6 times a day for 6 counts...it usually helps)

September 23, 2009 - 2:05am
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Anonymous

why i dont feel good when we are haveing sex i feel good when im on top thats how i got to make my self feel good.

July 20, 2009 - 1:16am

Hi,

Here is a recent post from Pamela on Mind Blowing Orgasm Tips:

http://www.empowher.com/news/herarticle/2009/06/03/mind-blowing-orgasm-tips-women

Others have posted on it and provided additional information.

June 4, 2009 - 12:39pm
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Anonymous

your feeling that you have to pee may be happening if you're about to squirt aka female ejaculation. next time you have sex, be sure to pee before hand.. then if while you're having sex you feel that need again relax and let it all happen, you may just have the best orgasm of your life

June 4, 2009 - 10:55am
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