Facebook Pixel

hey well i am 18 i had sex with my bf and i wanna know if he puted all his pin. or just the top in me am i stiil virg. or not ??

By December 30, 2011 - 5:35am
Rate This

Add a Comment2 Comments

Is it that important that have the label virgin? If he inserted the tip of his penis inside you, you are not a virgin.

January 5, 2012 - 7:58pm

Dear nalaa,

Personal definitions of virginity stem from cultural, religious, and family values. To some, a virgin is someone who hasn't had sexual intercourse (that is, penis-to-vagina intercourse). To others, a virgin is a person who has not engaged in any intimate acts, including deep kissing, genital touching, and oral, vaginal, or anal sex. Still others may allow certain intimacies, like kissing and touching below the belt, while excluding other sex acts. Some people believe they are a virgin until they have sex with someone of the opposite sex, while many believe that people who exclusively have same-sex partners can and do lose their virginity. 

With that being said-- only you can determine whether or not you are a virgin. 

Best Wishes,


December 30, 2011 - 6:43am
Enter the characters shown in the image.
By submitting this form, you agree to EmpowHER's terms of service and privacy policy
Add a Comment

All user-generated information on this site is the opinion of its author only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions. Members and guests are responsible for their own posts and the potential consequences of those posts detailed in our Terms of Service.

Sex & Relationships

Get Email Updates

Resource Centers

Sex & Relationships Guide

HERWriter Guide

Have a question? We're here to help. Ask the Community.


Health Newsletter

Receive the latest and greatest in women's health and wellness from EmpowHER - for free!