Facebook Pixel
EmpowHER Guest

hi, i was at my boyfriend's house yesterday, and i gave him a lap dance. however, during this, his penis lightly touched my vagina. there was probably only penetration to the hair and 1 cm into the lips. does this count as losing my virginity?

By Anonymous May 25, 2011 - 3:07pm
Rate This

Add a Comment1 Comments


The most frequent definition of virginity is penetration of the penis into the vagina. The Merriam-Webster Medical Dictionary defines a virgin as one who has not had sexual intercourse and sexual intercourse as:
1 : heterosexual intercourse involving penetration of the vagina by the penis or coitus.
2 : intercourse involving genital contact between individuals other than penetration of the vagina by the penis.

May 25, 2011 - 4:38pm
Enter the characters shown in the image.
By submitting this form, you agree to EmpowHER's terms of service and privacy policy
Add a Comment

All user-generated information on this site is the opinion of its author only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions. Members and guests are responsible for their own posts and the potential consequences of those posts detailed in our Terms of Service.

Sex & Relationships

Get Email Updates

Resource Centers

Sex & Relationships Guide

HERWriter Guide

Have a question? We're here to help. Ask the Community.


Health Newsletter

Receive the latest and greatest in women's health and wellness from EmpowHER - for free!