I am almost 29 years old, my boyfriend is 37. We've been together for 6 years now. I feel like I'm going into my "sexual prime", sex is on my mind more than it's EVER been. I have only had a few sexual partners, while my boyfriend has had NUMEROUS (@50). Our sex went from "off the charts", to "ummm blah" REAL FAST! I know that lack of privacy is an issue, I just recently moved back from Virginia Beach (I was there for a year) and had to move back into my parents house for the time being. He also moved into his fathers house, due to the fact that I was out of state helping my family and his dad is in need of help around the house (his dad is in this mid-70's, understandable). My boyfriend comes from a family of 7 and is the second to the youngest and the only one not married, so obviously it just seemed like the right thing to do. I KNOW that plays a BIG part, but it should be the END of our sex life. I mean, it's not like we have NO privacy. I've spoke to him about ALL this and the fact that I'm starting to think about sex as much as a man. When we can do it, we don't. When we can't, I've tried to be cute, sexy, dirty, etc. You know the "meet me in the car" whatever. Now we have had sex a couple times this week and he's the ONLY one who's gotten off... even after speaking, crying, screaming, and loosing sleep about this. I don't know what to do, speaking to him doesn't... it's to the point were I don't feel pretty, sexy, worthwhile, or ANYTHING. I'm beginning to resent him for the fact that he's shown NO concern about my feeling or emotional needs. What do I do, please help.
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