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I'm 20 and never had sex but my period is late. What could it be?

By April 22, 2010 - 12:10pm
 
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I've been getting my period for almost ten years and I have never been good at keep track because it came on so randomly. But it hasn't come on at all and it worries me at first I thought it was a yeast infection but I don't have symptoms. But sometimes when I wipe its white milky stuff and when I looked it up online it sad that it was something that happened before your period, that wasn't the first time it happened but I didn't know it happen before my period. But I still haven't got it. Is there something I can do to bring it on? Or a way to figure out whats wrong? I can't go to my sisters they're all younger than me and my mom is mom and it would be nerve wrecking to tell her and get her all worked up before I even know for sure whats wrong or I'm not overreacting. I'm not the skinniest person but I'm not obese either. This has never happened before. Please help.

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Anonymous

i am 21 and i am a virgin but since last two cycles my periods late by 18-20 days
my life has been very sedentary recently..
what am i suppose to do? is der any problem with me?

August 15, 2017 - 4:23am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

The change to a more sedentary lifestyle may the reason your periods have been late.

For peace of mind, consider scheduling an appointment with a gynecologist.

Maryann

August 15, 2017 - 8:09am
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Anonymous

I'm 17. I had sex a few months ago then started my normal period a week after that. It's been 13 days since I was supposed to start my period this month. I've had tender breast cramps that aren't bad but there's feeling to them and I've had my days where I'm moody. I get discharge all month long and it's super heavy right now. What's wrong with me?

July 16, 2017 - 6:19am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

I cannot say. Consider scheduling an appointment with your gynecologist to find a reason for this change.

Maryann

July 17, 2017 - 8:41am
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Anonymous

I've been having cramps for about 4 days and no sign of my period. I've always have clear white discharge every time I get off my period and the days before I get on my period it becomes heavy clear discharge. I haven't had sex or fooled around with a guy, zero anything. My cramps are extremely painful and I'm scared it could be something wrong. Please help

July 7, 2017 - 10:34am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

Sorry for the delay in replying.

Did you start your period?

Maryann

July 17, 2017 - 8:39am
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Anonymous

Hi I need help! I am 16 and my period is 4 days late. I do not have sex but a couple of days ago me and my boyfriend rubbed our genitals together and it slipped in for like 2 seconds. We did something similar later that night but not directly on my vagina. My bf is freaking out and I need to reassure that everything is okay

June 25, 2017 - 6:19am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

Once your period is late by at least seven days, take a pregnancy test. That is the only way to be reassured.

Maryann

June 30, 2017 - 1:21pm
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Anonymous

Hi
My period is about a month and a week late. I have never had sex, but my boyfriend and I have fooled around quite a bit. My period is usually irregular, and I do miss periods from time to time, the worst being 2 months 2 years ago. I had exams in April, and started a new job in May and went off of a gluten-free diet. I know it is irrational to think I'm pregnant, however I can't keep my mind of the possibility...

May 30, 2017 - 7:41pm
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Anonymous

Im 2 days late for my period but never had sex. Me and my boyfriend were touching each other down there. I dont know whether im pregnant or not. Please help

May 23, 2017 - 2:50pm
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