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ask: Is it wrong what i am deciding to do with my friend please help???

My boyfriend and i broke of but im not really hurt cause i knew he didnt care about me from day one i cried for 3 minutes and why i cried was not because i love him cause i didnt but i did care about him so he actually hurt my feelings instead of my heart which is ok with me, im sill a virgin and i ave a friend which i met last year when i was doing my course is it wrong to have sex with my friend even though we agreed not to have feelings involved. he is a cool guy but not the kind of guy who is lovey dovey but he is cool im just looking for a little thing not a relationship im just interested in sex and sex only which we both made clear to each other. he asked me to go out with him month end and then decide on whether or not i would want to go forward with the decision of just being friends with benefits, our other friend she has no idea he and i are on that topic i dont want to say any thing to her as all three of us are super great friends. he says we could do it and no 1 can know about which is what i really want i dont want any 1 to know about me and him deciding to have sex i know its a bit funny he is 20 and i am 18. ps i wanted to have sex with my boyfriend but he showed me no sort of affection to me its best not to care in relationships so i ave decided to cut the feelings.;

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Keisha lee,

Welcome to EmpowHER.  If you are out of the other relationship, it should be fine to date others.  You are young and am sure, you will fine many other guys along the way. Until you meet the right one, that will show affection.  I don't see why would you have to keep it from your friend, if you feel you love this guy.  

Best of luck,

Daisy

February 21, 2013 - 4:55am
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