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my boyfriend of 7 yrs rarely trys to have sex with me. I got tired of being turn down so I quit asking. whats wrong?

By May 27, 2014 - 2:09pm
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He used to look at porn a lot but theres been no evidence of recent activity of it. Is he just to lazy to have sex. Or is it my weight gain. Or something else. I even walk naked in front of him. And nothing. He says I do it to much to be excited about. I dont know what else to do. I've tried everything.

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Hello pandagirl,

It sounds like your boyfriend has told you what is wrong. As you posted, he says, "I do it to much to be excited about."

How much weight have you gained?

Have you tried talking to him? Together see if you can put the spark back into the relationship. Otherwise, it may be time for both of you to move on and go your separate ways.


May 27, 2014 - 4:38pm
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

I was about 110 when we first met now bout 170. Even when I lean in for a kiss he will either turn his head or not kiss back.

May 27, 2014 - 4:41pm
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