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My boyfriend like slow sex and he dont like condoms and i dont feel anything or enjoy it at all what must i do am afraid to tell him?

By Anonymous May 13, 2015 - 7:01pm
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Hi Anon

Thanks for your post! 

If you are close enough to a man to have sex with him, you are close enough to let him know how you feel. 

But if you really think you can't talk to him about it, try taking control in the bedroom and suggest a different pace of sex and to try other things. 

Do you want him to wear a condom? If so tell him - these are things you have to be proactive about. If he won't wear a condom to protect you from pregnancy/disease then you need to stop having sex with him. Are you having completely unprotected sex? If so, you really have to stop doing that. 



May 14, 2015 - 5:01am
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