ask: my husband has lack of interest in sex
we got married 2 yrs before and were in Dubai...........in the beginning we used to have sex but after 2 months he lost interest in sex . He ll never bother whether i m interested or not wen ever i take initiative he ll refuse or ll say hes very tired ...................................My hus has started new business before 5 months which is in Dubai and India so he needs to travel once in 2 months because of which i came to India 6 months before ...........he comes to India only for a week then also we hardly use to have sex........................please advise what can be done ............i really feel he doesnt love me wen he refuses to have sex and wen he doesnt show interest in sex
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Dear Anon
Thanks for your post and welcome!
I'm sorry you are being made to feel this way - I don't blame you for not feeling loved since constant rejection will almost always ensure a person feels this way.
We have tackled this subject on many occasions and have had hundreds of replies, dozens of them from women in the same situation so I'll link you over to the busiest thread and you can share the experiences (and wisdom) of women in the exact same situation - http://www.empowher.com/community/ask/why-doesnt-my-boyfriend-want-have-...
Please read through it and let me know if it helps you! Also, have you had a sit down chat with him about this? Not about not having sex (itself) but WHY he is refusing? What does he say?
November 30, 2009 - 1:02pmThis Comment
if u r husband does not show intrest in that means he looking for some one in that case u to go for that
December 21, 2009 - 12:23ami dont have intrest in sex dont know wt to do but my husband want have sex daily please suggest me wt to do
December 21, 2009 - 4:23am