So i have been with my boyfriend going on 5 months now. (only a 4 yr age difference) Everything is great, he is so not like any other person i have been with and thats a huge relief. Only problem is the sex. There is hardly any. We only get to see each other on weekends so you think he would be wanting to do it every weekend but its not the case. I did have surgery and couldnt for 4-6 weeks. But its going on 8 weeks now and we only fooled around once. No intercourse. Last weekend i put on sexy lingerie for him but he hardly even noticed, course he was playing computer games. So i got upset and he said he was an idiot and forgive him he hasnt been in a relationship for 8 yrs. *sure but everyone has hormones* . His excuse is usually well we both were tired, or he was tired, or he thought i was tired and was being a gentlemen. He assures me its nothing to do with me, he loves me and i know he does. I can see he gets turned on by me but i dont get it. Shouldnt this be the honeymoon phase? (he says he gets hard just by kissing me) He is on medications that perhaps affects his sex drive but i dont know (some are for his heart). We have talked about this a few times and i cant help but think he isnt into me. Even though i can see that he is but its hard on the head you know? He told me that while sex with me is great he just loves being with me in general no matter what we are doing. I guess i am just not used to someone having a lower sex drive then i do lol But its very frustrating :-(
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