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Hi so I'm kind of worrying about this pain because I have had it before a little bit on my sides (kidney are or ovarie area) only during sex. But the other night my boyfriend and I were having sex (not that rough/normal sex) and I started to feel a sharp almost stabbing pain in my ingle/groin area (right about my vagina).. and while trying to change positions to try and make the pain go away my kidneys or ovaries started to hurt so we had to stop.. After for the rest of the night I could hardly stand up, and would feel that sharp pain when I would sit or unrine (not a burning but that same sharp pain.. The pain in my sides finally went away but last night when i was feeling fine we tried again and yet again had to stop. This time to pain was worse... It was extremely hard for me to walk up the stairs and couldnt stand up if I tried after making it to the couch if he were to lean on my side it would hurt. Laughing hurt... Waking up numerous times last night in pain and still this morning I am still feeling that sharp pain and cant completely stand up right... What could this be...? Im really worried...

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EmpowHER Guest

I have the same my doctor said I strain myself

May 17, 2015 - 7:29am
EmpowHER Guest

Iam also same prblm .. ..idono what do? Becose iam stating gulf ..plz help full coment

April 20, 2015 - 12:35am
EmpowHER Guest

I've been having the same problems off and on for 2 years. Im 21. The doctors can't figure it out. My back will hurt so bad it almost feels numb. =/

July 28, 2014 - 9:23pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hi I also have the very same problem during and after sex, would get a very sharp pain on my right side, I could hadly walk or stand straight, would get nauseas and feel pressure on my tummy. Went 4 tests and check ups but they can't seem to find the cause of it. Sex is a nightmare for me lately!!


April 22, 2013 - 3:19pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Hi I'm feeling the same. You got any solution?

January 15, 2015 - 7:40pm
EmpowHER Guest

I have the exact same pain, after having had normal sex, I could hardly breath out, laughing was impossible and I could not even stand. I woke up a few times last night in pain, and this morning it's still there but quite mild.
I am suspecting an (urinary?) infection, but I'm overseas for another week. Do you think I could wait to be home before seeing a doctor or do you suggest to act quickly?


November 16, 2012 - 9:43am
EmpowHER Guest

Hi I have the same pain, and am not sure what it is it is a sharp pain a little bellow the kidneys and kind of where I imagine the ovaries would be it hurts for quite awhile after sex and I think is getting worse. I am scared to go to a doctor

September 3, 2012 - 5:07am
EmpowHER Guest

Thanks, susan.
i m male/24,
i guess i must go to doctor.

December 7, 2011 - 12:55am
EmpowHER Guest

Could these be same reasons for both male and female?

December 4, 2011 - 12:44am
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon

If it has something to do with the bladder or kidneys, then it could have, but not if the issue was with the female reproductive organs, obviously.

Unfortunately this member didn't post an update so we don't know what the issue was.

If you are in this kind of pain, please see you doctor.



December 5, 2011 - 1:29pm
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