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What can cause difficulty in being disvirgined and what are the solutins?

By October 11, 2011 - 9:07am
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Hi Fratra

Thanks for your post!

Your question is very broad, can you be a bit more specific? Do you mean an emotional block, or something physical, or even cultural expectations of sex?

A bit aspect of having difficulty having sex for the first time is fear, especially if you have been taught that sex hurts or it's bad. This is done to stop unmarried women from having sex and most of it is completely untrue. This happens to many women, yet then they are expected to have no fear at all once they marry. Ironically, the same is not done to men.

Your question has been asked many times here on EmpowHER so I am going to link you to some active threads that contain a lot of advice, about both physical and emotional fears:



Please let me know if these help you!


October 11, 2011 - 9:55am
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