What should I do? My boyfriend was seeing a girl for a short period of time about a month before he started to date me. They were in a sexual situation, although never had intercourse. It really bothers me that they still call each other even though we've been dating for 6 months. I've talked to him about it and told him and that it upsets me. He's understanding, and asked me if I wanted him to stop talking to her (yes that's what I would like to happen) but I said no because I don't want to be controlling him. He claims that he calls her because he doesn't have many friends in town and that he feels bad that she is alone.
I don't know how to solve the problem because I don't want to control him, yet I don't want to be constantly upset with and suspicious of him.
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