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ask: What do you do if you have never had sex but you haven't had your period for about 32 days?

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I am almost 14 years old. It may seem weird that I am on a website to ask about my lady problems but my mother and sister are no help and my dad, well, he is my dad. I have had my period for over a year and from then to now I have kept an accurate record of when I have gotten and when I have ended my menstrual cycle. Since January or December of this year (well not December, but ya) I have gotten my period on the 16th. It is now may and I expected to get my period yesterday but it didn't come. Hopefully I thought it would come today but it didn't. I am now really worried because I know I can't be pregnant since I have never had sex and it doesn't seem normal today to have not of had your period in 32 days. I have no idea what to do except to just wait and stress myself out. Please help me because I am not sure if this is just normal or if I am really going crazy.

Thank you very much,

A. N. W.

(don't laugh at me my parent's didn't mean to name me after a root beer company.)

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I am currently 14 years old, and I had sex for the first time by accident with my boyfriend, and he pulled it out before he ejaculated, but I'm scared I might be pregnant because of the pre-ejaculation. I got my period last month 23rd of February 2015 and February has only 28 days, and right now it's 24 of March, and I still didn't get my period, I'm really scared, what exactly are pre-ejeculation? I don't want to get pregnant yet, I really love going to school, help me, what should I do?

March 24, 2015 - 2:33am
EmpowHER Guest

Hi I'm 16 and I haven't had my period for 3 months and I never had sex before so I definitely can't be pregnant my mum says it's fine but I know it's not if someone has a answer please tell me because I am internally freaking out here. Thanks

March 19, 2015 - 1:25pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Have you try to take an pregency test or concole a doctor? If you haven't, than I recomend that you should. There are some reason why it hasn't come
1. stress
2. Have gain a lot of weight
3. Lost a lot of weight
4. Taken new medication
I hope this helps, take care :)

March 20, 2015 - 4:10pm
EmpowHER Guest

I am 13 and I haven't had my period and I haven't had sex so I couldn't be pregnant and my mom is no help and neither is my dad. and i'm really scared because I have the hormones of when you are on your period it's just that there is nothing.

March 18, 2015 - 5:27pm
EmpowHER Guest

I'm 13and my period usually starts in the beginning of the month. My first period started December 12 my second started January 8 and my last one started February 5 and now it's march 7 and I haven't started it yet. But since I was getting scared, I read online that the cycle could take 28-45 days. But if it takes longer than three months you should contact a doctor

March 7, 2015 - 7:05pm
EmpowHER Guest

Ever since I turned 16 n 2014 I'm periods haven't been on & I thought maybe next month but it's March 3, 2015 & my period is still not on I'm nervous & I know I'm not pregnant because I never had sex before & I don't know what to do. I really wish it would come back on .

March 3, 2015 - 10:50pm
EmpowHER Guest

Ok I'm 12 and today might be the last day I the month and I don't remember when I had my period this month or not sorry for grammar but like I think I might be pregnant I've never had sex before so in really scared and idiot want to go to the doctors to get checked because u don't want them touching me its litrally just turned March now OMG CANT BELIEVE IN SAYIG THIS BUT I MISS MY PERIOD

February 28, 2015 - 5:02pm
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Hi im 12 years old and its the 28th if February and u can't remember is I've had my period so I'm kinda scared if I'm pregnant I might see if u have it next month if u do thank god if I dont I might tell my mum

February 28, 2015 - 4:55pm
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Ur not preagnt if u didn't have sex but u should go to the doctor immediately

March 21, 2015 - 9:31pm
EmpowHER Guest

I can't see comments but my daughter is in same place as u and I'm worried

February 28, 2015 - 2:00pm
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