ask: What do you do if you have never had sex but you haven't had your period for about 32 days?

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I am almost 14 years old. It may seem weird that I am on a website to ask about my lady problems but my mother and sister are no help and my dad, well, he is my dad. I have had my period for over a year and from then to now I have kept an accurate record of when I have gotten and when I have ended my menstrual cycle. Since January or December of this year (well not December, but ya) I have gotten my period on the 16th. It is now may and I expected to get my period yesterday but it didn't come. Hopefully I thought it would come today but it didn't. I am now really worried because I know I can't be pregnant since I have never had sex and it doesn't seem normal today to have not of had your period in 32 days. I have no idea what to do except to just wait and stress myself out. Please help me because I am not sure if this is just normal or if I am really going crazy.

Thank you very much,

A. N. W.

(don't laugh at me my parent's didn't mean to name me after a root beer company.)

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Guys please help me. I'm 14 years old and may period almost 2 months late. i havethe feeling syptoms of pregnancy but i never had sex i swear. Guys what to do? I'm scared to tell my mom. I don't know may tummy is cramping and may urination increase and i feel fatigue please help me. I'm not pregnant right?

July 11, 2015 - 2:54pm
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon
No, you are not pregnant. Your period is probably irregular due to your age. For some women, it can take several years for their periods to regulate.

July 14, 2015 - 6:20am
EmpowHER Guest

I'm 16 this year and have had my period for 4 years now. I've kept track of it since, firstly it stared on the 24th, then it went to the 16th, then it was the 9th and then it changed to the start of every month. But it's been on the 23rd for about a year and a half now. It's now the 25th and I am starting to become really worried. I know it's only been 2 days but it's not normal for me. I'm not sure if I should just sit and wait or call my doctor. I can't tell my mum I've been watching to much baby programs lately she'll automatically think I'm pregnant and won't listen to me when I tell her I'm not. I'm not keen on going to the doctor either. Can anyone help me?

May 25, 2015 - 1:21am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Okay well hun I am 20 years old, if you are having sex then you should talk to your mom or another family member you trust and have them take you to an obgyn. If you are not having sex, tell an adult you trust about what is going on and ask them to take you to a doctor. It could be nothing but your body changing. Trust me, your body will change a lot. If if you are not pregnant, ask your doctor about birth control. It will help regulate your period. Hope its not to late for the reply

June 14, 2015 - 3:34am
c.a.d.a0603 (reply to Anonymous)

I'm 13 and my boobs are hard... I haven't had my period in a while I dont know how long its been. I've never had sex. And everytime I look up what could be going on it points to me being pregnant... I'm worried.. I don't know what to do.. Please help.

July 10, 2015 - 9:42pm
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Anonymous (reply to c.a.d.a0603)

You are fine. You are just growing up. Its part of life. If you never had sex and your boobs are hurting, then they are growing. As funny as it sound rub and massage them, it will help. Your period is also going to be irregular for a little bit till your body is use to the change. You have nothing to worry about.

July 10, 2015 - 10:09pm
EmpowHER Guest

I 16 year old i never had a boyfriend before, and i never have sex ,but i getting worried cuz my period suppose to come yesterday it didn't come i keep waiting still not come i getting worried, if someone never have sex before is their a change u can get pregnant or something, my period doesn't have day to come but this month it over i think i gonna die please help me.

May 1, 2015 - 2:08am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

You are fine. There is nothing to be worried about. If you have never had sex then you are not pregnant. I would suggest to go see an obgyn or talk to your doctor about going on to birth control. It will help regulate your menstrual cycle.

July 10, 2015 - 10:14pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hi I'm 13 and I have all the symptoms of a period but I have not gotten it I'm worried is this normal

April 14, 2015 - 9:19pm
EmpowHER Guest

I'm about to turn 12 and haven't had my period yet but I know it's coming. I haven't had sex yet of coarse. But, I do have some ideAs:
• go to a doctor and tell them what's going on
•ask mom and see what she thinks
•ask other family members
I hope that helped:)

April 2, 2015 - 4:04pm
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