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ask: What do you do if you have never had sex but you haven't had your period for about 32 days?

I am almost 14 years old. It may seem weird that I am on a website to ask about my lady problems but my mother and sister are no help and my dad, well, he is my dad. I have had my period for over a year and from then to now I have kept an accurate record of when I have gotten and when I have ended my menstrual cycle. Since January or December of this year (well not December, but ya) I have gotten my period on the 16th. It is now may and I expected to get my period yesterday but it didn't come. Hopefully I thought it would come today but it didn't. I am now really worried because I know I can't be pregnant since I have never had sex and it doesn't seem normal today to have not of had your period in 32 days. I have no idea what to do except to just wait and stress myself out. Please help me because I am not sure if this is just normal or if I am really going crazy.

Thank you very much,

A. N. W.

(don't laugh at me my parent's didn't mean to name me after a root beer company.)

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EmpowHER Guest

I am 13 years old i have had my period for 3 years now and i have always been on time and never missed but i havent had my period for 3 months now and i have never had sex but now my parents think i have because i got really sick about three weeks ago

December 25, 2013 - 4:46pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hi Iam 16 I never had sex and my period always comes on timeand I haven't have my period for 2 months

December 23, 2013 - 1:54pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hi I'm 13 and I always have my period on a regular cycle of 28 days but it has now been 40 days and the weird thing is have never had sex. Am I pregnant

November 10, 2013 - 11:33am
EmpowHER Guest

I'm 13 years old and have never had sex . started my first period before school started and still haven't had my second one and I'm worried there's something wrong ...
it's driving me crazy .. help !

October 13, 2013 - 6:10pm
EmpowHER Guest

Wait and be patient because it will always come, if it doesn't come in the next year and a half call a doctor or talk to a female who is close to you about it, hope this helped. There are many reasons it may not have come: your body weight, height how your body is built, even if you gained weight it also depends on how much you exercise. Arleast that's what I've seen from research. I hope this helped(:

May 1, 2013 - 2:58pm
EmpowHER Guest

i am 13 and i keep a track of my cycles and it didnt come so i am very wottied and i have never had sex bfore i need a answer to whats goin on with this PLEASE......and now my moma thinks im havin sex but im not

November 12, 2012 - 8:56am
EmpowHER Guest

Hi. I am 13 years old and i have never had intercourse. I am very worried since i havent gotten my period for almost 2 months. I got my period at july and have not had it since Pleasa help me! ><

October 27, 2012 - 11:04pm
khelper13 (reply to Anonymous)

Don't worry girl everything is ok. I have only had my period one real time and it started in December on the 5th it was about a 5 day cycle and I haven't gotten it since (it's been 4 months since). It could even come a year later, so don't worry. Hope this helped (:

April 2, 2013 - 9:48pm
EmpowHER Guest

I am 12 years old and i started my period this summer in july. I got it again in august. Every since it stopped in august i havent gotten it again. And it is now december. I have never had sex before and im starting to get really worried. I think something is wrong with me because when i first started my period it was a brownish-reddish color and it was guey. Please help me.

October 19, 2012 - 4:51pm
EmpowHER Guest
Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Me too I haven't had it for 44 days an it was brownish gooey

April 29, 2013 - 7:11pm
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