ask: What do you do if you have never had sex but you haven't had your period for about 32 days?

By whatawhatawhoha May 17, 2009 - 8:36pm
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I am almost 14 years old. It may seem weird that I am on a website to ask about my lady problems but my mother and sister are no help and my dad, well, he is my dad. I have had my period for over a year and from then to now I have kept an accurate record of when I have gotten and when I have ended my menstrual cycle. Since January or December of this year (well not December, but ya) I have gotten my period on the 16th. It is now may and I expected to get my period yesterday but it didn't come. Hopefully I thought it would come today but it didn't. I am now really worried because I know I can't be pregnant since I have never had sex and it doesn't seem normal today to have not of had your period in 32 days. I have no idea what to do except to just wait and stress myself out. Please help me because I am not sure if this is just normal or if I am really going crazy.

Thank you very much,

A. N. W.

(don't laugh at me my parent's didn't mean to name me after a root beer company.)

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Hi I'm 15 and I have had a regular period sense I was like 13 but I'm I'm not u know bleeding . I haven't done anything to cause it to stop. (Vergin, mostly healthy, gets a lot of sleep but not tonight) My parents think it's caused from stress. Is this true? How can I help this so I start normally.

November 26, 2015 - 4:37am
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon

It's a bit disturbing to think a 15 year old is under so much stress that she is missing periods. You need to work on this and ask for your parents' help. What kind of stress are you under? And how long have you been missing periods?

November 26, 2015 - 7:04am
EmpowHER Guest

I'm 13 and my period have come in like 2 month and I never have sex . Is it normal my period late?
Sincerely emily

November 7, 2015 - 6:58am
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Emily

You are far too young for sex.
Your period is probably irregular due to your age. For some women, it can take several years for their periods to regulate.

November 9, 2015 - 3:53pm
EmpowHER Guest

I am 18 years old and only had a forced period once never again what do i do i was sexually abused when i was little...

September 28, 2015 - 8:10am
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon

You need to be seen by medical professionals, there may have been damage to your reproductive organs due to sexual abuse. You should also receive counseling for the crimes committed against you. Also, it may bot be too late to press charges.

You most certainly need to see a health care professional .

Please let us know how things go for you.

September 28, 2015 - 3:22pm
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Anonymous (reply to Susan Cody)

I have seen a OBGYN and they did a paps-mere and then gave me the pill to start but i have never started after, my birth parents are already in jail and i was put into foster care and now i am adopted but my adoptive mother ( who cares & loves me very much) says there is nothing wrong with me. Could I have Cancer? What should I say at my next appointment. Also I just fell down the stairs a few days ago and I have a bruise under my boob and my chest has been hurting... I also have a big bruise on my elbow it was swelled at first then went away???

October 1, 2015 - 11:37am
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon!

How old are you?

I don't know why you are bringing up cancer, there doesn't seem to be a connection there.

Falling down the stairs can cause bruising all over, it may take a week or so for the discomfort to stop.

October 1, 2015 - 3:06pm
EmpowHER Guest

This is My friends problem.If she had domestic abuse at Like 9 Or something Like that and never had her first period with out a condom is she still going to get her period?

September 23, 2015 - 9:24pm
Susan Cody HERWriter Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hi Anon
You have been helped on your other post.

September 24, 2015 - 5:14am
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