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ask: What do you do if you have never had sex but you haven't had your period for about 32 days?

By whatawhatawhoha
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I am almost 14 years old. It may seem weird that I am on a website to ask about my lady problems but my mother and sister are no help and my dad, well, he is my dad. I have had my period for over a year and from then to now I have kept an accurate record of when I have gotten and when I have ended my menstrual cycle. Since January or December of this year (well not December, but ya) I have gotten my period on the 16th. It is now may and I expected to get my period yesterday but it didn't come. Hopefully I thought it would come today but it didn't. I am now really worried because I know I can't be pregnant since I have never had sex and it doesn't seem normal today to have not of had your period in 32 days. I have no idea what to do except to just wait and stress myself out. Please help me because I am not sure if this is just normal or if I am really going crazy.

Thank you very much,

A. N. W.

(don't laugh at me my parent's didn't mean to name me after a root beer company.)

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I've had my period only twice in my life. The first time I was 13 and it was VERY heavy ( had to change a super+ tampon every 20-30 mins) and it lasted for almost 2 weeks. Second time I was very light and it was 2 months after my first one. That one only lasted about 2 days. It's been about 5 months since then and I still haven't gotten it. For the past week and a half I've had brownish discharge. For the first few days it was very brown and now it's almost normal. It's very heavy today. Was that spotting or is it a disease or something? Im still a virgin so it couldn't be an std. Should I go to a gynecologist or doctor?

January 17, 2015 - 3:27pm
EmpowHER Guest

im young (13) and i had my period once when i was 11 and it was so light and it didnt even last a day. ive got it once every three or four months but again its so light that its only one time I go to the bathroom. is this normal?

January 5, 2015 - 11:39pm
EmpowHER Guest

I am 17, I started having my period when I was 13 years old, About 1 year after that I would have them like every 3 to 5 months. now I have not had it for a year? I have never had sex. but I do want children when I am older, but no period=no child. what should I do?

December 3, 2014 - 2:53pm
EmpowHER Guest

Another one over here i'm a virgin 15 years old and haven't hady period for a month and a few days my mom's a nurse and she says that if I don't get my period doesn't begin this month i'll have to go to the doctors.

December 1, 2014 - 6:15pm
EmpowHER Guest

I am 13 and i never had sex before, but my period has not even come I've been waiting every month for it to come and it does not get here what do I do?

November 6, 2014 - 4:18pm
EmpowHER Guest

I'm 13, and i haven't gotten my period in a week but im pretty sure i am not pregnant because i never had sex. & im really worried why hasn't my period come !! pls help me

October 21, 2014 - 8:43pm
EmpowHER Guest

i am 19 never has sex, and have had my piriod. it was regular but it began to now i have not had it for nearly two years. i have had ultra sounds, thyroid test, and exct. is there a reason for this or will it come back i am a little over whight and i ride horses. any help is welcomed!

September 30, 2014 - 11:15pm
EmpowHER Guest

I'm now 14 I've had my period for about a year and a half. I've never had sex in my life. And my period is always around the same time frames 2 days early or a day or two late. It has been a week since it was meant to come. I'm super scared and I wanna tell my parents cuz my mother and her grandmothers and mom all had ovarian cancer, I'm super scared I don't know what to do!!!! I need help

August 2, 2014 - 4:43pm
EmpowHER Guest

Hi, I'm 16, I've only had sex twice and that was last year or two years ago. I haven't had my period in almost 3 months, I was expecting it on my birthday but it didn't come. I am really worried, I need answers now! My parents are no help at all. Please, I need help!

July 18, 2014 - 7:27am
EmpowHER Guest

I am 17 and I haven't had a period in 4 months now It used to come on track I marked it down and every thing now it is,4 months late and I'm scared I haven't had sex and it is making me stressed I need answers please I have a few medical Ishues if that might affect it
Thiroid and ashma But please can any one tell me what is going on

July 14, 2014 - 8:35am
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