ask: What do you do if you have never had sex but you haven't had your period for about 32 days?

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I am almost 14 years old. It may seem weird that I am on a website to ask about my lady problems but my mother and sister are no help and my dad, well, he is my dad. I have had my period for over a year and from then to now I have kept an accurate record of when I have gotten and when I have ended my menstrual cycle. Since January or December of this year (well not December, but ya) I have gotten my period on the 16th. It is now may and I expected to get my period yesterday but it didn't come. Hopefully I thought it would come today but it didn't. I am now really worried because I know I can't be pregnant since I have never had sex and it doesn't seem normal today to have not of had your period in 32 days. I have no idea what to do except to just wait and stress myself out. Please help me because I am not sure if this is just normal or if I am really going crazy.

Thank you very much,

A. N. W.

(don't laugh at me my parent's didn't mean to name me after a root beer company.)

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I'm 16 this year and have had my period for 4 years now. I've kept track of it since, firstly it stared on the 24th, then it went to the 16th, then it was the 9th and then it changed to the start of every month. But it's been on the 23rd for about a year and a half now. It's now the 25th and I am starting to become really worried. I know it's only been 2 days but it's not normal for me. I'm not sure if I should just sit and wait or call my doctor. I can't tell my mum I've been watching to much baby programs lately she'll automatically think I'm pregnant and won't listen to me when I tell her I'm not. I'm not keen on going to the doctor either. Can anyone help me?

May 25, 2015 - 1:21am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Okay well hun I am 20 years old, if you are having sex then you should talk to your mom or another family member you trust and have them take you to an obgyn. If you are not having sex, tell an adult you trust about what is going on and ask them to take you to a doctor. It could be nothing but your body changing. Trust me, your body will change a lot. If if you are not pregnant, ask your doctor about birth control. It will help regulate your period. Hope its not to late for the reply

June 14, 2015 - 3:34am
EmpowHER Guest

I 16 year old i never had a boyfriend before, and i never have sex ,but i getting worried cuz my period suppose to come yesterday it didn't come i keep waiting still not come i getting worried, if someone never have sex before is their a change u can get pregnant or something, my period doesn't have day to come but this month it over i think i gonna die please help me.

May 1, 2015 - 2:08am
EmpowHER Guest

Hi I'm 13 and I have all the symptoms of a period but I have not gotten it I'm worried is this normal

April 14, 2015 - 9:19pm
EmpowHER Guest

I'm about to turn 12 and haven't had my period yet but I know it's coming. I haven't had sex yet of coarse. But, I do have some ideAs:
• go to a doctor and tell them what's going on
•ask mom and see what she thinks
•ask other family members
I hope that helped:)

April 2, 2015 - 4:04pm
EmpowHER Guest

As I read everyone's comments, you all are 13/14, yet I am 12 and have the same questions. I haven't had my period symptoms or blood in 2 months and I am starting to get worried along with my mom. I am thinking since I am Christian, so I gave up hot chips for Lintel. I'm thinking it's because I haven't been eating like I did when I was having my periods. Also, it might not be that so Ya. overall, I am 12, haven't had my periods and am getting really worried. |bye|

April 1, 2015 - 4:19pm
EmpowHER Guest

I'm 14 , I've never had sex and around the time I shouldve gotten my period I had the symptoms (cramps , etc.) And anyways I never got my period .. and now after missing one period it's around the time I should have it again and idk if it's going to come .. is this normal ?

March 29, 2015 - 11:50am
EmpowHER Guest

I am currently 14 years old, and I had sex for the first time by accident with my boyfriend, and he pulled it out before he ejaculated, but I'm scared I might be pregnant because of the pre-ejaculation. I got my period last month 23rd of February 2015 and February has only 28 days, and right now it's 24 of March, and I still didn't get my period, I'm really scared, what exactly are pre-ejeculation? I don't want to get pregnant yet, I really love going to school, help me, what should I do?

March 24, 2015 - 2:33am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

Did he use a condom?

May 2, 2015 - 6:23am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

If you still haven't goten it by now then you should be worried. My mom (who is 47)has pregnantcy testes in the bathroom, so maybe your mom doestoo. Ik ewww, but if she does take the test and go from there. I hope this helped I'm only 15 but I just wanted to help:)

April 15, 2015 - 2:47pm
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