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What do you do if you have never had sex but you haven't had your period for about 32 days?

By May 17, 2009 - 8:36pm
 
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I am almost 14 years old. It may seem weird that I am on a website to ask about my lady problems but my mother and sister are no help and my dad, well, he is my dad. I have had my period for over a year and from then to now I have kept an accurate record of when I have gotten and when I have ended my menstrual cycle. Since January or December of this year (well not December, but ya) I have gotten my period on the 16th. It is now may and I expected to get my period yesterday but it didn't come. Hopefully I thought it would come today but it didn't. I am now really worried because I know I can't be pregnant since I have never had sex and it doesn't seem normal today to have not of had your period in 32 days. I have no idea what to do except to just wait and stress myself out. Please help me because I am not sure if this is just normal or if I am really going crazy.

Thank you very much,

A. N. W.

(don't laugh at me my parent's didn't mean to name me after a root beer company.)

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hi im only 16 i never had sex before and i havent had my period in like 5 months. it is usually irregular but not this long and its getting me worried specially because i feel bloated and i been having random muscle spasms in my stomach and some pain. also i have been doing gymnastics this year and im on acid reflux medication and a lot of stress too and i had a hard fight with a friend a few months ago... can that be a reason for it being so late ? i went to the doctor already and they said that my blood tests show that one of my hormone levels is too high and they want more tests .... which ... what does high hormone level mean ? also i know its crazy and it does make me feel stupid but im freaking out im virgin therefore should not be pregnant but i feel fatter...... this is driving me crazy and creating a lot of stress help please !!!

October 11, 2012 - 6:54pm
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Anonymous (reply to carolina101)

Hi, omg! i'm 16 years old also...& have a very simular thing to you going on...i'm always feeling bloted (sometimes sick) i seem to be alot fatter, & seriously hating on it! i haven't had my period since August this year. I do a fair bit of physical activity, as i like to keep fit & helthy! but this shouldn't stop my period should it? it's driving me crazy too!!!

November 17, 2012 - 11:03pm
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I usually don't keep track of my period date, which I should have.. but I know I start the first week of the month. And I haven't gotten mine last month nor this month. I'm 16, and I have NEVER had sex. Its scaring me ... and driving me crazy !

March 25, 2013 - 5:26pm
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Anonymous

I'm 14 years old, I have never had sex but I have came really close to it. Now I am freaking out because I am 10 days late. What do I do?!

October 1, 2012 - 6:15am
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Anonymous

I have not had sex and haven't had my period since last month on the sixth. Last summer I missed my period for three months but since then it's betten regular. Why haven't I started my period I started goig to the gym for about a hour each day so is that causing this will my period start again?

July 14, 2012 - 8:34pm
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Anonymous

I'm 5 days late and me andmy bf never really had sex but we have layed on each naked annd I'm worried something more happened and I'm scared to ask my mom. What should I do?

July 12, 2012 - 7:20am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

^^ this is me Kendall age 15 someone reply soon

July 12, 2012 - 8:19am
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Anonymous

ive miss my period by a few days im 12 so idk if i should be worried ive never had sexual contact in my like and its been exactly 30 days since my period what do i do? because i just ended school exactly 1 month ago and i was on my period but now im not and its been thirty days!

July 5, 2012 - 12:49pm
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Anonymous

hey, im 13 nearly 14 and ive not had my period since the first week in April. Last year i stopped for 6 months straight! I always start for 2-3 months then suddenly stop im kinda worried i have something wrong with me. I don't really want to see a doctor though, so im hoping you can tell me is this normal or not ?

June 10, 2012 - 11:52am
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Anonymous

I haven't had my period in about three months now. I am 13 years old and have never had sex. I have had my period for three years now and havent missed a period for this long. I'm really scared. I don't want to tell my mom because I don't like the doctor. I've been really scared that something might be wrong with me but I don't know. I also look like I've lost weight, my stumache and sides hurt real bad at times, I get cramps every now and then, I wake up every hour of the night and I do not eat as much and everytime I do it feels like I'm going to throw up. I haven't been able to stay up till 12 at night like I normally can.

February 19, 2012 - 8:57pm
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