Everytime I am having sex I always seem to be very wet, and sometimes wet through my panties. However, I met this new guy, really great!! I like him a lot and we stepped into that next level of having sex with each other. I did get an orgasm and it was enjoyable, but I was not wet and it eventually started to hurt mainly from dry skin rubbing against dry skin. Does this mean that I am not attracted to him? Is there a problem? Is there a way to fix this?
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what happens if your wet almost all the time with ur friend..... but with my bf im alway's dry
September 25, 2011 - 6:32pmThis Comment
Hi Anonymous,
My best advice about your situation is first and foremost, two wrongs will never make a right. If you choose to cheat on your boyfriend to get "revenge" and lose your virginity is not a good solution to your problem. Since you are only 13 years old, you will learn in time that this situation is not uncommon as you are all very young.
Take your time and do not get revenge on your current boyfriend since I can assure you in a year, you will have another boyfriend and saving yourself for a special person will be worth your wait. There is no rush for sex...or a relationship for that matter. Take your time.
Good luck,
August 13, 2011 - 8:37amMissie
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hi my name is caniyah and my friends brother likes me and i kind off like him but he really wants me to have sex with him and i have never had sex before i am scared it will hurt but he tells me it wont but idk because hes not a girl and is it ok to have sex with him out of revenge. becuse his friend cheated on me and i am mad and no if i do have sex with him i no he will tell his friend and his friend will be mad we have foreplay and i get wet and hornie but i am only 13 and want my first time to be special and not in a bathroom like he wants(fyi he has had sex before a lot of times )
August 10, 2011 - 8:37pmThis Comment
hi my name is caniyah and my friends brother likes me and i kind off like him but he really wants me to have sex with him and i have never had sex before i am scared it will hurt but he tells me it wont but idk because hes not a girl and is it ok to have sex with him out of revenge. becuse his friend cheated on me and i am mad and no if i do have sex with him i no he will tell his friend and his friend will be mad we have foreplay and i get wet and hornie but i am only 13 and want my first time to be special and not in a bathroom like he wants(fyi he has had sex before a lot of times )
August 10, 2011 - 8:37pmThis Comment
You shouldn't use sex as a tool of revenge.. all this boy wants is sex and nothing serious.. you should have more confidence because I'm sure you are a beautiful young girl.. don't have sex with this boy.. you will forever have taught yourself to use sex as a tool and it should be more special than that.. wait for a guy who cares enough to be in a relationship with you fall in love and want to make your first time special for you.. its a wonderful and you don't want to waste.it on jerks Luke those boys
August 27, 2011 - 10:34pmThis Comment
Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 3 months now and everytime we do it I come about 10-11 times. Is there something wrong with me or is that normal?
July 17, 2011 - 9:36pmThis Comment
Completly normal meaning he is doing things right my gf is same way trust me doing things right...
August 3, 2011 - 11:04pmThis Comment
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and we do , do alot of sexual things im only 15 ..But it seems like everytime i see or here his voice i get Wet i dont know if thats normal or not, and I do really want to do it and so does he but everytime we get close to it i get nervous and feel like crying so does that mean im just not ready yet?
July 14, 2011 - 1:41pmThis Comment
What do you think the average age is to masturbate if your a male. I'm 12 and my friends seem to be doing it. My sister is also having problems with this. She wants me also to ask you guys/girls when she should start fingering herself, or having any kind of sexual pleasure by doing things to her body... Thanks so much!
March 21, 2011 - 3:03pmThis Comment
I want to know if it is a problem. Since 3 weeks, when I think of my boyfriend, i get wet. Day and Night. Anytime. Y so?? This never happen to me before, though I have been with him since 4 years
March 8, 2011 - 11:57amThis Comment