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Everytime I am having sex I always seem to be very wet, and sometimes wet through my panties. However, I met this new guy, really great!! I like him a lot and we stepped into that next level of having sex with each other. I did get an orgasm and it was enjoyable, but I was not wet and it eventually started to hurt mainly from dry skin rubbing against dry skin. Does this mean that I am not attracted to him? Is there a problem? Is there a way to fix this?
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I dont know im 11 and this page popped up. I never want to have sex! It sounds gross
January 11, 2010 - 7:40pmThis Comment
Hi,
Can you tell us what you were searching for, that caused this page to "pop up"?
Did you have any questions about your body or healthy sexuality (including abstinence) that you were searching for? We can help answer any questions that you have.
January 17, 2010 - 9:30pmThis Comment
What if your wet all the time? Like literally all the time.
January 5, 2010 - 12:51pmThis Comment
Vaginal discharge is completely normal, and is just an indicator of your cervix doing its job! There will be normal changes throughout your cycle with the amount/volume, texture, odor and color of this discharge. Many/most women experience discharge on a regular basis, but if the discharge is bothersome to you (in extreme amounts), or is noticeably different, it would not hurt to see a Gynecologist just to make sure you do not have an infection.
When to be concerned about amount/frequency of vaginal discharge?
"Vaginal discharge that suddenly differs in color, odor, or consistency, or significantly increases or decreases in amount, may indicate an underlying problem like an infection." Source: MedlinePlus: Vaginal Discharge
Does this help answer your question?
January 5, 2010 - 2:28pmThis Comment
When I'm with my boyfriend I can't get horny so, is it me or him because of it. When I see him I get horny. But when it's time to do it. No Hornyness!
January 2, 2010 - 9:02pmThis Comment
Sexual arousal is different for every person, and if you are not experiencing this feeling of getting excited sexually around your boyfriend, it can mean many different things. However, you have to be honest with yourself and open to it's "meaning". If you are not "in the mood", "horny" or "physically/emotionally/sexually aroused", then it could mean:
January 3, 2010 - 7:54am1. You do not want to have sex or be physically intimate with your boyfriend at that time.
2. Your physical body is telling you something about your relationship with your boyfriend, that your mind/emotions are not ready to listen to yet (perhaps he may not be "the one" for you).
3. You may have had previous bad physical/sexual experiences in the past, anything from your boyfriend going too fast and not having time to help you become physically aroused..to having traumatic sexual experiences that you did not want. Men are physically aroused sooner than women, and you and he can allow yourself time to become sexually "horny" with more stimulation that you enjoy.
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no this just means that eaither u bin doing it to long in one night or just means u are not wet and it didnt go in like lube does as for lube it makes it easyier to slide in
October 5, 2009 - 6:20amThis Comment
I just recently was having sex with my boyfriend and I was very turned on/wet, which is normal for me to get overly wet sometimes I need to wipe some off so it is more enjoyable, but this particular incident what wasn't normal for me was it was white rather than a clear color. How normal or abnormal is this? I haven't had any itching or burning sensations. I'm completely embarrased PLEASE HELP
September 11, 2009 - 3:01pmThis Comment
Vaginal discharge can be either white or clear; both are normal.
You are right that if there is any itching, burning or foul smell, then this would mean that there may be an infection that you would want checked by a doctor.
January 3, 2010 - 7:57amThis Comment
well this does mean that eaither its ur first time and the skin is starting to strech and if its white u have been cumming cs of all the plesure/wet dont worry about it ull be fine
October 5, 2009 - 6:22amThis Comment