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whats going on with me ? PLEASE HELP

By September 5, 2011 - 5:33pm
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i had sex on the 26 of july and had my period a few days later it was a real one heavy dark red blood you know normal and i had sex again on august 4 and 5 . i had my period i think it wasmy period a week after i had sex august 4 and 5 when it started i was feeling sick in the morning and really tired i thought it was just the start of going back to school but then a week later i had this light brown spotting and i felt like i was about to throw up in the morning and after i eat like the other day i almost threw up my lunch and when i came home from school i stayed in bed until it was time for me to go to church and when i came back i ate and went to sleep i didn't really have energy to do anything else . . . and now i feel bloated and constipated but its easy for me to go to the bathroom i dont have to struggle with it or anything and my boobs feel heavy and kinda sore idk maybe its in my head but i can barley stay up pass 10 sometimes and the only way the nausea go away is i use the bathroom or throw up and it only stay away for a little while

oh yea i skipped 6 or 7 days on my birth control someone said it could be withdrawal bleeding but its not like i just stopped taking them i would like take some a whole week and then i'd forget to take some the next week and it equal up to about 6 or 7 days without taking one in this month . . . .

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ok thanks but i think it was the start of my period becase i got brown stuff in my undies today

September 9, 2011 - 1:32pm

um one more thing today i've been having this dark white discharge ( i hate to explain this lol ) but it looks like skim milk to me maybe a tad bit darker and ive had it before but its more i mean it kinda felt like i was getting my period i had to go to the bathroom and check and it dosent have a smell

September 8, 2011 - 5:01pm
(reply to xoxolovee)

Hi xoxolovee,

White discharge is normal. If there is no foul odor then you have nothing to worry about.


September 9, 2011 - 9:56am

no not yet idk how to talk to my mom about it

September 7, 2011 - 1:21pm
(reply to xoxolovee)

Does your mom know that you're having sex? It would be ideal if you could sit down with her and talk about what is going on. However, it is important to know whether or not you are pregnant so if you can't bring yourself to talk to her just yet-- you can purchase a pregnancy test at any drug store, many dollar stores, and at grocery stores. You can get the result for that first, and then talk to your mom about it so that she is aware of what's going on in your life. As a parent, the last thing we want is to find out that our child is pregnant when we didn't even know they were having sex. So, if she doesn't know-- please inform her. She is your mom and cares about your well being. The more informed she is, the better she can educate you about sex, STDs, and pregnancy to prevent situations like these from happening again in the future.

Good luck to you,


September 8, 2011 - 9:24am

i wasnt taking the pills when i had sex in august and it was a virus going around and i thought that what it was but its been going on for about 3 weeks and does it matter if i take the pills like take one one day but dont take one the next cause thats how i did

September 6, 2011 - 1:30pm
(reply to xoxolovee)

Hi xoxolovee,

Yes it does matter if you take one pill one day and then skip one the next. In order to achieve full effectiveness of the pill, they should be taken at the same time every day.

Did you take a pregnancy test?


September 7, 2011 - 8:06am

Hi xoxolove,

If you stop taking your birth control pills even if you just stop for a few days, you can certainly have withdrawal bleeding. I'm a little confused as to whether or not you were on your pills the 3 times you had sex? Have you tested for pregnancy lately?

Your symptoms very well could be symptoms of a stomach virus and not necessarily pregnancy so please test for pregnancy and keep us posted.


September 6, 2011 - 7:17am
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