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Why can't I enjoy sex?

By Anonymous September 18, 2011 - 2:19pm
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My boyfriend and I have had sex 3 times and not one of those times have i had an orgasim or even really enjoyed. Each time we use a condom and he doesn't cum inside of me. But each time we have sex I get paranoid about being pregnant. Any suggestions on what I should do?

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Or you can get implant on... that way you don't need to worry getting pregnant... he doesn't need wear condom... Its 99% safe - ask doctor more information.
Hope its help

October 4, 2011 - 9:29pm

sound like you just need to relax and try something different like four play first. that might help you to relax and then you might like it more.

September 19, 2011 - 12:55pm
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i agree

September 22, 2011 - 6:45pm
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Hi Anonymous,
Don't worry...if you are starting to have sex, this is not uncommon. Women do not function the same way as men do. The "in out, in out" motion, is not going to give you pleasure. Here is a great article for you to read to help better understand the female orgasm and perhaps you can share this with your partner as well.


Good luck,

September 18, 2011 - 3:04pm
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