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Why do I despise and lose all feeling for someone once I sleep with them?

By Anonymous April 28, 2014 - 5:30am
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I've slept with several guys now, and after I had slept with each of them I could not help but just hate them afterwards and hate myself for it as well. I feel sad, guilty and sick afterwards and I normally can't talk to them after it because I feel mad at them and hate them. I know it may sound stupid and I thought maybe it was to do with the guy the first time, but it's happened every time since. Please help?

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Hi Anon,

Welcome to EmpowHER.  Definitely it's not normal to have those feelings. You might want to give yourself some time to think things over more and maybe concentrate in just finding the right person first before you become intimate with them. It's not safe either, there are many STDs out there. If you feel concerned, it might be best to see a psychotherapist. Hope this was helpful?



April 28, 2014 - 5:54am
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